oddnuff

I am joining and posting in hopes that my daughter and her fiance can find help and support thru the sonora community (or any community). her man, is an alcoholic. i did alanon in my youth and think she can learn from it. she needs help in her decision making. she, so far, gives him ultimatums and does not follow through. she insisted he go to aa, he did once. now for weeks nothing but arguments. she grew up with me, her mom, never drinking. her dad however made up for that by drinking to excess. she has gone out and found her dads problems, in her fiance. i love and support her but i am her mom and she will learn better from others. there is more history but this is a big introduction as it sits. i will let her get on this site and learn from others. thank everyone for having this site open to us.

Hevyn

Welcome oddnuff. We also have a Friends & Family forum which may be very helpful for you and your daughter. We're glad to have you here - this is a wonderful place for support.

least

There is also an "AlAnon" forum here for friends and families of alcoholics. Check it out.

Welcome to SR!

Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information

sugarbear1

Al Anon in your area, in case the meeting locations had changed:

District 27

Adult Children Of Alcoholics meetings here:

Meetings - Adult Children of Alcoholics - World Service Organization, Inc.

I wish you and your family well on your journey to healing

Coldfusion

I hope your whole family joins, because it sounds like you all could learn a lot here.