Alcoholic loses mind after two weeks sober

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Old 03-29-2013, 02:01 PM
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Alcoholic loses mind after two weeks sober

My OH stopped drinking for 2 wks. At the 2 wk mark were strung so tight that they snapped in a grocery store. While I was bagging our groceries my OH couldnt stand waiting at the cashier untill we bagged everything and paid. They ran me over with the cart breaking my hand. In the car punched me in the face and at the hospital couldnt sit and wait for my xrays on my hand and had to go home. Once I was out of hosital back home they were half into fifth drink vodka and orange. Alcoholism should be called extreme anxiety an indiviual can only relieve with a drink I think.
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please tell me you called the cops and had him arrested for assault and battery? and that you did not just go home to the same person who landed you in the ER?

i hope this has you thinking differently today...thinking about YOU, your safety, your life.
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Faded jeans, that's inexcusable.

He's not recovering, he's still an alcoholic. He's still drinking.

I know irrationality, impatience and irrationality are three key haracteristics of A's - whether drinking or not. But physical abuse is never ok, regardless of how roughy a RAH's program is.

I hope you're not living in the same house as him; he doesn't sound at all stable. Do you have a trusted friend or relative you can stay with for a while? You need to be out of this situation...

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FadedJeans it is not okay for your OH to treat you as a punching bag. There is no excuse for it.
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Old 03-29-2013, 02:37 PM
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What's OH?
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Old 03-29-2013, 02:37 PM
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So she beat you up and left you at the hospital? Then went home to drink?

Dude that's abuse, plain and simple.

I put up with that sort of sh*t for years cause I thought I was a man and couldn't be abused by a women. I was wrong.

Abuse works both ways. Get away from this violent person.
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Old 03-29-2013, 02:38 PM
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OH = other half ...maybe?
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Old 03-29-2013, 02:53 PM
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Originally Posted by drc5426 View Post
OH = other half ...maybe?
That's one scary other half...I'm surprised no one from the grocery store called the police...
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Old 03-29-2013, 02:56 PM
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Dear fadedjeans, you are being abused. Please get away from her. You aren't doing her any favors and you don't deserve abuse. Abuse is abuse--IT DOESN'T MATTER WHO IS DOING IT!

I am making the assumption that it is a woman---I realize I might be wrong. Nevertheless--the facts are the same. You don't deserve abuse. By rights, this person should be in jail right now. Assault and battery.

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Old 03-29-2013, 09:03 PM
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Wow...

No one inthe storestepped in? No one in the parking lot saw it?


Please think about your living arrangement. This OH is not stable right now. You need to think about somewhere else to stay.
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Get out of there!!!!
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Run like He!!
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FadedJeans, this is certainly not healthy for you, physical nor mentally! Please, seek help and a safe place - you deserve better than this...much much better. No one deserves to go through this anguish.
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So Much thanks for all your replies!! Fadedjeans.
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