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Old 03-22-2013, 09:21 PM
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My husband is attending Al Anon

Is it appropriate to ask him about the meetings? If he has found a sponsor? If I can help him in any way? Should I go with him?
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Old 03-22-2013, 09:23 PM
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Is he attending AlAnon because you drink? I'd be curious too but would not ask for too much info unless he volunteers it.


Or do you mean he's attending AA meetings?
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Old 03-22-2013, 09:28 PM
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You should not ask who was at the meeting or what was said. "Was that a good meeting?" is probably okay.

It would be okay for you to go to the meeting, if he has a drinking problem. There are couples that go to both AA and Al-Anon together.

He should tell you if he gets a sponsor, because he will be spending time alone with this person and you will probably want to know where he is going.
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Old 03-22-2013, 10:13 PM
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Is it appropriate to ask him about the meetings? If he has found a sponsor? If I can help him in any way? Should I go with him?
I would let him do his thing, he probably has a lot of things he needs to get off his chest. And he can do it there safely.
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