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Well, I screwed up last night. I can't even pinpoint why.They say relapse is a part of recovery.i never thought I'd go drink again. i was doing so good for so long.That makes 5 relapses in three months! Now I feel terrible physically and spiritually. When am i going to learn?
hey PK
Many of us have faltered - but relapse is part of the illness, not recovery.
don't fall for the old 'relapse is part of recovery' line - our addiction loves that.
you can learn from it tho - think about what else you could have done, think about what else you need to change, or what more support you need - next time you can be prepared and ready, and kick butt
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Many of us have faltered - but relapse is part of the illness, not recovery.
don't fall for the old 'relapse is part of recovery' line - our addiction loves that.
you can learn from it tho - think about what else you could have done, think about what else you need to change, or what more support you need - next time you can be prepared and ready, and kick butt
D
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I was a chronic relapser for many years. I got to the point that I would lie about, which eventually drove me away from even trying. This was hurting no one but myself. Having a relapse is a normal part of moving into recovery - although, it is not required and this fact is not an excuse. Keep at it and stay honest about it!
Well, I screwed up last night. I can't even pinpoint why.They say relapse is a part of recovery.i never thought I'd go drink again. i was doing so good for so long.That makes 5 relapses in three months! Now I feel terrible physically and spiritually. When am i going to learn?
We are all a work in progress.
Thanks for sharing here, Kitty!
I had to make some major decisions--like spending a week in detox--and some major life changes--like AA meetings daily--before I knew I was on a different course.
Most other alcoholics were only in detox a few days, and there are folks who stay sober without AA.
I hope you can find the changes in your life that keep you sober.
I had to make some major decisions--like spending a week in detox--and some major life changes--like AA meetings daily--before I knew I was on a different course.
Most other alcoholics were only in detox a few days, and there are folks who stay sober without AA.
I hope you can find the changes in your life that keep you sober.
PK, Don't beat yourself up. You WILL get there.
Dee, thanks for that. I'm on day 5 and my AV perked right up for a second there.
Dee, thanks for that. I'm on day 5 and my AV perked right up for a second there.
PK for me things changed when I stopped "quitting drinking" and embraced sobriety unconditionally- that means if I am bored then I am bored, If I am stressed I am stressed etc etc it takes drinking of the table as a potential "solution"
Just keep at it. It will stick.
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And that is me.
bunny and instant have perfectly described my tipping point, PK. It's so obvious to me now that drinking was the real sacrifice. It's just hard to see when you're still stuck in the bubble of addiction. This way really is so much easier. You will be glad you didn't give up.
bunny and instant have perfectly described my tipping point, PK. It's so obvious to me now that drinking was the real sacrifice. It's just hard to see when you're still stuck in the bubble of addiction. This way really is so much easier. You will be glad you didn't give up.
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