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Old 02-14-2013, 01:40 AM
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Day 17

This marks my longest stretch of sobriety since I left out-patient rehab in 2005. I honestly don't recall how long I stayed sober then. 6 weeks, maybe.

I wanted to mark the occasion with it's own thread because YOU PEOPLE gave this to me. Sure, I was the guy who didn't pick up the bottle, but you taught me how to be good with that. I learned it right here in this forum.

I've never been sober longer than 3 days without having my next drunk planned.

Until now.

The freedom is exhilarating. Thank you.
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Old 02-14-2013, 01:45 AM
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And to top it off, 21years ago today the love of my life agreed to marry me.

And she never lost hope.

Awesome.
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Day four, CONGRATS!!!!!!!
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Old 02-14-2013, 03:22 PM
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Stopped at the grocery on the way home to get some steak and shrimp for a special Valentine dinner. Went looking for ginger ale and wound up in the beer and wine aisle - just passing through. I've spent quite a lot of time in that aisle on previous trips to that store, and I don't think I've ever left it empty-handed before.

My beast was really stimulated by being there. My AV went haywire telling me to just grab a couple of beers. I told him to get stuffed, but it was a little shocking to me how excited that summanabotch got just from walking down that aisle. WOW!
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Yeah, I had to stay away from the beer/wine aisle for a long time.

Big congratulations on your recovery. I'm so glad that SR has helped you to get to this point. And, how sweet of you to make a special valentine/engagement anniversary dinner.
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We're proud of you, Nonsensical. It's great to have you here with us. Wonderful job on your 17 days.
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Congrats. What an awesome lady you have too ! X
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Awesome Nonsensical! You deserve to feel very, very good today!
Enjoy your dinner!
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Well done! Have been enjoying your posts these past few weeks and how you have been beating AV into submission.
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Congrats! Keep up the great work!
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Nonsensical, Day 17? You are FANTASTIC. Congratulations.
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This is great Non!! I hope your dinner was wonderful. What did you decide on the anniversary/valentines gift for her? Whatever it was I'm sure she loved it. She stuck it out...and you made things right. This is a beautiful story. Congrats to you both!
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That's awesome nonsensical! Each time you say no you get stronger. In my first month the thoughts were pretty loud and I would say "I don't do that anymore" It IS liberating. Congrats to you!
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Originally Posted by Nonsensical View Post
My beast was really stimulated by being there. My AV went haywire telling me to just grab a couple of beers. I told him to get stuffed, but it was a little shocking to me how excited that summanabotch got just from walking down that aisle. WOW!
Nosensical, was it you who wrote in a post to "take your alcoholic voice and stuff it in a box and plug the airholes"
because I used that the other day and it worked wonders and made me giggle, so Thanks! I think I need to research this AVRT stuff a little more.
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Old 02-14-2013, 06:18 PM
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Nosensical, was it you who wrote in a post to "take your alcoholic voice and stuff it in a box and plug the airholes"
because I used that the other day and it worked wonders and made me giggle, so Thanks! I think I need to research this AVRT stuff a little more.
I have written that line a few times, but it's a loaner from [BeastMaster] Weasel1966. He turned me onto the concept about 2 weeks ago,and I found it so motivating I have re-shared it a few times.
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Congrats NS! I see your posts and how fearless and compelling you are with beating the beast, and know we aren't doomed

Bless that wife of yours. And hold her tight. I bet she can't believe she has the man she said yes to back tonight!
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