Coty

Hi everyone.
My husband says I am abandoning him because I refuse to move back into the. Home with him. I left almost 2 years ago because of his drinking and verbal and physical abuse. I live in a one bedroom apartment with my two children. I had agreed to start dating him again so long as he was sober and getting the help he needs. But he has been binging and so I am refusing to move back in the house. Am I wrong?

Coty

Anna

Welcome,

I'm sorry for your situation.

You might want to consider AlAnon as a support for you as you continue to take care of yourself and your children.

Bigndfan175

I think you're extremely wise - IMHO

may you have strength beyond your capacity to deal with this

LexieCat

Also, please check out our Friends and Family forum here--you will find a whole bunch of people who understand EXACTLY what you are dealing with, and some great support!

Dee74

Welcome to SR Coty - you'll find a lot of support here

D

Coty

Thanks everyone. I went to my first Al-anon meeting and it was a breath of fresh air. I'm not alone.

renaldo

Hi Coty,

Nope. Don't touch that with a 10 foot pole. You're better than that.

kizzy40

Ooh emotional blackmail, thats not fair...
He is being selfish, stick to your guns and do whats best for yourself and your children. Good luck