myedge

Hey im 43 years old, i have been in a relationship with 30yr old for about 7 years. He has problems with drugs and alochol. He can go for a couple of months without doing anything, he will work and help around the house. Then out of the blue he gets waisted and takes off stays drunk corweeks at a time. He has lied, taken things from me, took a car of mine went out of state.i still dont know where it is.he cant hold a job. He has had several dui's. He always comes back begging me to forgive him and i always do..
ifeel like im loosing my mind help please,

Dee74

hi and welcome myedge
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Coldfusion

Welcome to SoberRecovery!

I was that man until just recently, and I became a lot worse before I got better at age 50. He is just taking advantage of how easily you let him back.

I would suggest Al-Anon for you and AA for him.