Husband is gone til Sunday
Husband is gone til Sunday
My husband just left to go out of the state til Sunday. For some reason I thought he would be leaving tomorrow. This is the time I would normally be drinking my heaviest, while he is gone and I am alone. I'm a little nervous, not about tonight as I plan on finishing up some work and then reading in bed. This weekend is going to be VERY trying because Saturday I am attending a somewhat controversial out of town gathering for HIS family without him there. My MIL desperately wants to drive with me because she is not accepting this "gathering" and is very emotional over it. I know she wants me for emotional support to get through this thing, but I am pretty much lying to her and saying I'm not sure I can make it to this event at all just so I don't have to deal with several hours there and several hours back trapped with her in the car constantly talking, crying, talking, crying, talking, talking, crying, angry, hateful, upset, depressed. I just can't do it to myself. I feel bad about lying to her but I have to protect my mental state right now, and being her crutch would be a huge blow. I lied and said have to work Saturday morning and am not sure I will be able to make this gathering. I still fully plan on going, pretending work got finished early, so I can drive myself there and back and not have to endure her constant talking, crying, etc. This is my way of putting my sobriety ahead of my "people pleasing" ways. If I really wanted to be selfish, I would not go to this thing at all and I wish I had said no in the first place. But it's too late for that, and I want to be there, I just hope it all works out. Just wanted to vent a little since no one in my family really knows what I'm trying to do including my husband. I hope the post made some sense. I do feel better now. Today is the end of day 3 for me.
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