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Old 12-10-2012, 11:23 AM
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Feeling miserable

I committed to stop drinking in the middle of the night. I'm not sure why I started but I'm certain that if I continue my relationships will end. Any advice
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Old 12-10-2012, 11:45 AM
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Good decision. Especially if you care about losing those relationships.

Give us a bit more background of your drinking career and we can provide better advice. First and foremost, quitting can be dangerous depeding on how long and how much you drank, so if you start to feel really bad get to a doctor.

For me the first 7 - 10 days were the worst part. After that clarity sets in and things started to return to relatively "normal". Stay here and read about what many of us have gone through. Learn about the mechanisms of aclohol and addiction. The more you know, the better you will be prepared.


Welcome to SR. Glad you are here with us.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:23 PM
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welcome to SR trustinginHim

Best advice I can give you is to read around and post as much as you like - you'll find a lot of support here

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Old 12-10-2012, 01:28 PM
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Welcome and congrats on deciding to quit drinking. I've only been here today but I think being here is a great step in the right direction. Good luck to you.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:40 PM
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welcome to SR trustinginHim

Best advice I can give you is to read around and post as much as you like - you'll find a lot of support here

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I echo Dee's advice about reading and posting. Welcome to SR!!
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:42 PM
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Advice? Keep making great decisions.

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Old 12-10-2012, 01:43 PM
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That feeling of misery will slowlly subside as you grow stronger in sobriety. Pride is what you will feel instead. Glad you found us ;-)
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:44 PM
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I am new to this forum. I joined in April but wasn't successful in understanding how it worked. How long does it take to feel better once you stop drinking
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Welcome!! HAng around here like the other 2 said, lots of info and support!
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:54 PM
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I have struggled with alcohol for a long time. I try to give it up and I just fail again and again. I know its not rational to keep doing this. I make a commitment - I will never drink again and I will never change my mind. Hard part is I don't feel supported in this decision. Im shamed by it. Alcohol is the huge issue in my family
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:55 PM
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I already am feeling a bit better. drinking lots of water. I drank 4 bottles of wine yesterday and I only remember the first 3 glasses.
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Old 12-10-2012, 02:02 PM
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I moved another post you made to this forum - it was getting lost in the other thread.

How long does it take to feel better once you stop drinking
it depends - for some its a day, for others it's a few days...for me by the end it was a week.

Things will get better - hang in there

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Old 12-10-2012, 02:15 PM
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Are there any foods that are better than others for healing after drinking so much. I just feel really weak and shaky
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Old 12-10-2012, 02:26 PM
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Treat yourself as if you have a stomach virus, your body needs to heal.

If you can eat a "real meal" of meat, veggies and a little mashed potatoes, do it. Eat healthfully. Sleep or rest. Drink water. Your body needs to heal.
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Old 12-10-2012, 02:30 PM
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Protein is good. Keep on in there. It is a cliche but it will come in time and if it is meant to be it will happen. Agree lots of water. But no alcohol flavoured stews, etc. The alcohol burns off but the flavour is still there. You need to find a drink you like that is not alcoholic.
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Old 12-10-2012, 02:37 PM
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You just need to eat something.. Make some toast and some soup.. Just keep nibbling..
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Old 12-10-2012, 02:40 PM
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got any plans for after the physical symptoms are over?
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Old 12-10-2012, 02:59 PM
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You can treat yourself to a bit of sugar in the first days/weeks. Best thing is to eat what you crave for. Your body knows and will tell you. ;-)
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Old 12-10-2012, 03:16 PM
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Chocolate helps me with cravings.
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Old 12-11-2012, 02:31 PM
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I made a veggie drink and that seems to be helping along with ginger tea. Plans for after these physical symptoms are past are to honor my commitment to never drink again and never change my mind. I am starting yoga again and think that will help me finding balance and healing.
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