The most difficult Thanksgiving, to date.
The most difficult Thanksgiving, to date.
Tommorrow will be trying. My grandmother is in the last stages of small cell lung cancer and is dying at a rapid pace. Hospice is doing all that they can.My mother was diagnosed with congestive heart failure this week as well. My This will be my first Thanksgiving sober in 7 years. I do not have any desire to drink, but the pressure of taking care of my grandmother all day, every day and the fact I know she is just holding on until after tommorrow is killing me. It keeps me ever commited to my promise to her : that I will never drink again. I know I owe it to my family as well as myself to be here in the present clear minded than to be a walking, stumbling zombie with no control over my words. I know this would be much harder on me if I was still drinking. I know I have to be strong, but sometimes, I just feel like everything is becoming unbearable. Thanks for letting me vent, and to everyone, I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving.
Dom
Dom
I'm really sorry for your situation Dom - all my prayers, best wishes and support go with you in this difficult time.
I am thrilled to hear you're staying sober tho - that really is the best thing you could do for yourself right now
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I am thrilled to hear you're staying sober tho - that really is the best thing you could do for yourself right now
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Dom, I relate to your situation. I drank my way through my beloved grandmother's extended passing (3 months home hospice) and I'm ashamed of it to this day. But I know she knew I would find my way - she was always a rock of support through my whole life, and I know she is looking down saying "that's my girl..." now that I've chosen a sober life. It took me a while after she passed but I did.
I'm proud of your courage and commitment to see her through this sober - take it from me, you don't want to deal with the mental fallout internally if you give in. It ain't fun. And you will be present in your own life as well as the final days of hers. That is a precious gift.
My thoughts are with you and I know you can do this. Sending strength and prayers to you!!
I'm proud of your courage and commitment to see her through this sober - take it from me, you don't want to deal with the mental fallout internally if you give in. It ain't fun. And you will be present in your own life as well as the final days of hers. That is a precious gift.
My thoughts are with you and I know you can do this. Sending strength and prayers to you!!
As it's been said. You are doing incredible things for others. It must take an extremely large amount of strength and courage to face what you are going through.
I will pray for you and your family through the holidays. God bless.
I will pray for you and your family through the holidays. God bless.
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