Dont Know where to turn
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Dont Know where to turn
Been dealing with a problem with my wife and she seems to not care what anyone thinks about it. Constantly quotes "i'm 42 and if i want to drink i will" and this is getting to be a worn out record. My children are old enough 21 and 17 and she doesnt care what anyone has to say about it. She uses alcohol and drugs(pot,opites ans such) and im just about ready to pack it all in...
Chris
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Join Date: Oct 2012
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My previous spouse was an alcoholic and even leaving didnt change him. He hasn't seen me or our children in 7 months, please take care of you. Pack it all in and start the healing process. It's been more than a year and a half, and i'm still healing, but i feel better now than before and cant imagine being back in the turmoil and hell that i was back then. My children are doing very good as well. That was always my #1 concern.
I don't believe that ultimatums work.
I think you need to make boundaries to protect yourself and your children, and stick to the boundaries. You might also check out AlAnon and NarAnon as support for yourself.
I think you need to make boundaries to protect yourself and your children, and stick to the boundaries. You might also check out AlAnon and NarAnon as support for yourself.
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