Feeling Lonely
Feeling Lonely
For the whole of today I've just been feeling really lonely. I am in the house with my family but I just don't feel right. I feel like I need a hug, from someone. I just need someone else here. As much as I love my family I feel that it has to be someone other than them. For some reason my best friend isn't really talking to me all that much at the moment and I haven't seen her for over two weeks. We normally meet at least once a week after I have been to a meeting near her. So I'm kinda just here thinking that essentially nobody likes me. Of course I know that's what my head is saying and it's not the truth because I do have friends. It's just sometimes I just feel the need for human intimacy and well hugs really.
Yea i dig it I drank everyone away. Loneliness is a big issue for me but I do think I flt lonier with family around than nobody. Well life is a journey even when we do not know where it will lead us
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Hi Natom,
I have been reading your posts for weeks now, and have envied your positive take on things and the help and positivity (maybe not really a word but I am ok with that) you always respond to other peoples posts with.
It is good to see that we are all human and have need and wants that may or may not be fulfilled.
Reading your post gives me the courage to post something I felt the urge to post earlier today but decided against. I was on the way to the liquor store to buy enough to get trashed tonight and felt that though I had every intention to carry through with it that I should post here about my imminent failure. I thought I would just come back and post after I was done because everything I could come up with sounded like I was about to kill myself, which was not the case at all.
Funny how that is sort of true but not true at all. So, here I am, I haven't had anything to drink in over 3 weeks until now. I bought a pint of Jack, a bottle of wine, and a large beer. And I am well into drinking them all and don't intend to stop tonight.
I didn't start this bender with the intention that it would fix anything,but because I couldn't stand the thought of being alone with myself over the next couple of day. Huricane sandy is headed my way, and school is cancelled monday and I have no classes on tuesday, so no real responsibilities for the next couple of days.
I was driving home about to stop and get gas and buy that beer as I began to think about how I could not face myself for the next couple of days and had to think about something else so I could go into the store without crying my eyes out. And then I got home with free reign to cry and feel as much as I wanted and I headed straight for that beer.
Well,I know I have been building up to this for a while now, so here it is.
Good luck to the rest of the october class, hope you do better than me.....
I have been reading your posts for weeks now, and have envied your positive take on things and the help and positivity (maybe not really a word but I am ok with that) you always respond to other peoples posts with.
It is good to see that we are all human and have need and wants that may or may not be fulfilled.
Reading your post gives me the courage to post something I felt the urge to post earlier today but decided against. I was on the way to the liquor store to buy enough to get trashed tonight and felt that though I had every intention to carry through with it that I should post here about my imminent failure. I thought I would just come back and post after I was done because everything I could come up with sounded like I was about to kill myself, which was not the case at all.
Funny how that is sort of true but not true at all. So, here I am, I haven't had anything to drink in over 3 weeks until now. I bought a pint of Jack, a bottle of wine, and a large beer. And I am well into drinking them all and don't intend to stop tonight.
I didn't start this bender with the intention that it would fix anything,but because I couldn't stand the thought of being alone with myself over the next couple of day. Huricane sandy is headed my way, and school is cancelled monday and I have no classes on tuesday, so no real responsibilities for the next couple of days.
I was driving home about to stop and get gas and buy that beer as I began to think about how I could not face myself for the next couple of days and had to think about something else so I could go into the store without crying my eyes out. And then I got home with free reign to cry and feel as much as I wanted and I headed straight for that beer.
Well,I know I have been building up to this for a while now, so here it is.
Good luck to the rest of the october class, hope you do better than me.....
Mister, we all have bad days. It sounded like you started drinking because you know you could. We can't use things as an excuse to drink or use drugs. We have to begin to face what life throws at us without resorting for our crutch on reality. I say that with the most sincere compassion I can but I hope you wake up feeling like s*it tomorrow and then decide what you did was the time you did it for the last time. I don't know if you believe in God or higher powers but I will pray for you.
You mentioned intimacy and fell out of bed? My version of intimacy is waiting until they are asleep until I call the taxi....I am ruthless. I do want a nice girl though, just can't find any round my ends.
Just lost my post, I think Natom said it for me.
You planned it Mrritter,
I think you should have probably bought cake, but hey, whatever.
We'll be here when you are done.
Dang it! 3 weeks was good too.
My friend blew 2 years on Friday night and the cops brought her home to her baby.
Good times.
You planned it Mrritter,
I think you should have probably bought cake, but hey, whatever.
We'll be here when you are done.
Dang it! 3 weeks was good too.
My friend blew 2 years on Friday night and the cops brought her home to her baby.
Good times.
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Join Date: Oct 2012
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Mister, we all have bad days. It sounded like you started drinking because you know you could. We can't use things as an excuse to drink or use drugs. We have to begin to face what life throws at us without resorting for our crutch on reality. I say that with the most sincere compassion I can but I hope you wake up feeling like s*it tomorrow and then decide what you did was the time you did it for the last time. I don't know if you believe in God or higher powers but I will pray for you.
and you are correct, I did this because I could, and I too hope I wake up tomorrow and decide this is the last time. and i think i admitted as much that this is a crutch. i couldn't take or wouldn't take the next day or two without drinking. at the same time i am so proud of myself and totally disgusted with myself that I don't know where to go next. I do, actually, it will be to stop drinking and get on with life, just not tonight.
I look forward to reading more of your posts and I admire what you have been able to accomplish.
You need to back up your words with actions mate. I wouldn't normally do this but seeing as you have already started just continue getting wasted tonight, and then in the morning get yourself to a bloody AA meeting or a drug and alcohol service near you, and then message me and tell me how it went.
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Just lost my post, I think Natom said it for me.
You planned it Mrritter,
I think you should have probably bought cake, but hey, whatever.
We'll be here when you are done.
Dang it! 3 weeks was good too.
My friend blew 2 years on Friday night and the cops brought her home to her baby.
Good times.
You planned it Mrritter,
I think you should have probably bought cake, but hey, whatever.
We'll be here when you are done.
Dang it! 3 weeks was good too.
My friend blew 2 years on Friday night and the cops brought her home to her baby.
Good times.
I guess it says something about me that I plan it out to minimize the bad.
ok i am done until I can come back sober again.
Thanks to all who have tried to help. I hope to return the favor someday.
lonely is tuff. visited a homeless camp today. Gave out pies and brought my laptop, the dudes went nuts, also my cell phone. It was like Christmas. We were laughing our heads off bur some of us don't have much head.
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