SGNJ40

My husband has been off and on his benjis...some times it stems from one week to three weeks.. he is now home pretending everything is ok, and he knows I don't feed any attention because I don't like BS, although dealing with him and his addiction feels like it. I am just feeling lost inside like why me and why am I allowing this. He has his good points as a man but once he slips and falls he is differently. I guess anyone would intoxicated or high off of crack cocaine or any drug..I remember the hard working man that does provide when he is coherent but the fact remains he has a drug problem, and I feel like I am enabling him. He has so many tricks up his sleeves when he wants to use. How can I maintain without losing or arguing and getting into it with him.

Signed,

Crazed wife- SGNJ40

Anna

Maybe you mean benzodiazapenes?

I wonder if you've considered NarAnon for yourself as a support for you? Also, we have a Friends & Families of Substance Abusers on this message board where you will find support.

silly

Hey, SGN! Did you check out the Friends and Family forum? You'll get great personal experiences and advice there.

I forgot... do you two have children?

SGNJ40

thank you so much,

Feeling like a jerk