Haven't Been Here For A While

Old 09-26-2012, 11:44 AM
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Haven't Been Here For A While

So much has happened, and I am back to square one. There was a huge crisis in my life back at the end of 2011, and in that moment of insane weakness, I took the AH back.

Now I'm clawing my way out of the hole to find myself and freedom from AH again. I hate him.

Wonderful to find my way back here again. I will post more of the story when I have a little bit more time.

Meanwhile, I've been doing a lot of reading here. And crying.

Sue.
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Old 09-26-2012, 11:49 AM
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Sorry you're back here for more than visiting purposes. But, you know from the past that this is the best place to be.

Best of Luck to you.

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Old 09-26-2012, 11:57 AM
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Don't think of yourself as being back at square 1. You've likely learned a lot and progressed on your own journey over the last year which gives you a huge head start this time.

We rarely get things right the first time and often need to do things over. It gets better, and we get better!
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Old 09-26-2012, 12:20 PM
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Welcome back! And like hypatia says above, it doesn't have to be square 1. It can be simply the next step in your life.

Keep coming back!
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Old 09-26-2012, 12:31 PM
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Here is a good place to be - keep reading and posting - we understand and we are here to listen and support
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Old 09-26-2012, 03:50 PM
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Now I'm clawing my way out of the hole to find myself and freedom from AH again. I hate him.
Sue, I'm sorry you find yourself back in this position. Reading that one sentence really struck a chord with me.

Clawing your way out of the hole. I get it. I was there so many times. Each time wondering how the hell did I get back here again? Beating myself up that I obviously didn't learn enough after the last 20 times of doing this or I wouldn't be here again.

Be kind to yourself. You aren't really back at square one. You've merely taken a step back. So, now take those two steps forward. We are here to support you in whatever way you need.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:15 PM
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Thank you all. I appreciate the encouragement and support.

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Old 09-26-2012, 08:13 PM
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You are not alone.

It's nice to meet you and I hope you'll post whenever you need support from us.
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