Just when I was feeling a little better...

Old 08-30-2012, 02:12 PM
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Just when I was feeling a little better...

As mentioned in another thread, my longtime live-in A partner left earlier this week. He went to stay with family. I miss him, I was a wreck for the first few days, but am slowly coming around and starting to be better. I think I went a whole hour this morning without thinking of him. Then I got an email from his family member saying he'd had a seizure and is in intensive care. I'm falling apart all over again. Even though we're no longer together I still care about him and am concerned for him. But I'll get through this. (Right?)

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Old 08-30-2012, 02:19 PM
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((akalacha)) - prayers for you, him and all who love him going up.

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Old 08-30-2012, 02:24 PM
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I hope he gets well. And you'll be OK too, don't worry
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I have nothing to add but hugs.
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Yes, you will get through this. Yes, you are allowed to care about him,
just from a distance.

Sounds like he was trying to detox on his own without medical assistance
or he just hadn't had anything to drink for a while and his 'maintenance
level' got low.

Who knows, maybe this will be his 'wake up' call or maybe not.

Sending healing thoughts and prayers to you and his family.

Love and hugs,
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Old 08-30-2012, 03:23 PM
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Yes, I hope he will get through this and that maybe it will be the ¨bottom¨ he needs to get help. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.
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Sending supportive energy and prayers your way. Hang in there.
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Old 08-30-2012, 04:04 PM
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I'm so sorry. You will get through this!
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