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Beat Back All Those Negative Thoughts You Have Come To Believe About Yourself!

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Old 07-06-2012, 08:30 AM
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Beat Back All Those Negative Thoughts You Have Come To Believe About Yourself!

Here's some inspiration for us today:

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Old 07-06-2012, 08:54 AM
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Old 07-06-2012, 08:55 AM
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I love this thank you for sharing. I'm struggling today with tears, heartache, and NC, so i need to read positive things.

It took my AH separating from me to realize how awesome I am as a person and how I needed to relearn to live my own life. It's like I told him yesterday when he was once again complaining about our marriage,"I'm finished with proving to you what an amazing person I am to be with. You can now figure that out on your own." the look on his face was priceless.
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Old 07-06-2012, 09:03 AM
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"I'm finished with proving to you what an amazing person I am to be with. You can now figure that out on your own." the look on his face was priceless.
Thank you for sharing. This is excellent. This is so true about me too!!! Thank you so much for reminding me!
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l2l, YES! this is awesome. thanks for sharing.

mmk11, i told my xabf last friday night that i was not going to waste my time proving to him that i wasn't lying about anything, and that he could either choose to believe me or not, and that there was nothing i could do to change the way he felt. i wish I had said it as perfectly as you did!!
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mmk11, i told my xabf last friday night that i was not going to waste my time proving to him that i wasn't lying about anything, and that he could either choose to believe me or not, and that there was nothing i could do to change the way he felt. i wish I had said it as perfectly as you did!!
What you said was great! I wish i couldve been saying things like that a long time ago to my husband. A's don't like us standing up for ourselves or calling them out on their behavior.

Here's to no longer second guessing ourselves or our self worth!
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