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Old 05-28-2012, 12:09 AM
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New here today...need to know I'm not alone

Hi....I'm Carol...on this April 21st (my b'day) I quit after 12 years of drinking and also 12 years of seeing an abusive narcissist and enabler. Double whammy addictions that were killing me!! I'm on this road alone so I'm glad I found you. I have no other support, quite the introvert loner. I'm doing all the right things..diet, etc. and cognitive methods. I struggle with PAWS some days. BTW I'm 63. Thanks for being here and thanks in advance if anyone replies....I appreciate you.
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Your not alone

I came here a while back and one of the first things someone suggested to me (her name was Carol too) was to read 'Under the influence' check that spelling because Im on the iPad.

It is a good book and pretty cheap to pick up.

Stick around, there are lots of good people around here...

Welcome to the forum!
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Old 05-28-2012, 12:41 AM
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welcome to SR Carol

You're definitely not alone here

You'll find a lot of support - congratulations on your sober time too

This is the best link for PAWs I know of - some nice tips for dealing with it here:

PAWS | Digital Dharma

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Welcome to SR carol.

Thank you dee for that link.
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Old 05-28-2012, 01:39 AM
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Welcome to SR Carol, glad you're here x
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Old 05-28-2012, 01:51 AM
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Hi Carol,
Welcome to the forum. You are certainly not alone. I am one year sober on Wednesday with the support of AA and this forum.

I have got a lot of help here,people explaining to me what I was/am going through. I didn't suffer from physical withdrawals but the mental roller coaster would have bee a lot worse without the support of people who u dear stand what you are going through.

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Old 05-28-2012, 02:28 AM
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Hello, you're definitely not alone xxx
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Glad you have found us, and you will never be alone as long as you can log on! You will find a world of support here.

Glad to know you are on a better path. And yes, you are doing good things! Welcome again.
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Welcome Carol!! You're in the right place. By the way you look amazingly young for a 63 year old.
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Hi Carol,

I'm glad you found us! You will always find like minded company here from around the world!
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Old 05-28-2012, 04:33 AM
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Carol
You are not alone
I am 53 but had around your length of heavy drinking
Glad to be sober now
Welcome
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Old 05-28-2012, 04:38 AM
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Welcome Carol!:ghug3 Glad to welcome you to the family. I quit drinking over two years ago. I'll turn 61 this summer. Better late than never.
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Welcome to SR, Carol!
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Welcome, Carol! You're definitely not alone. I'm glad you found us!
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Indeed, welcome to SR. And no, no, no, you're not alone.
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Welcome Carol. There are a lot of nice people here. You found a great place for support. And congrats on the month+ sober.
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Welcome to SR!

You are sober a little over one month, I doubt you have PAWS yet, but you are in early recovery. Give yourself 6 more months so you can heal better. After one year, I feel as if I am still healing from all of the self abuse. You will be okay, in time.

Have you read Alcoholics Anonymous? It's online. Maybe you'll relate to something in there. You will be able to relieve your self-centered fears if you want to.

Glad you are here!
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