Lilmssunshine

If were not careful any boundry we set can crumble. I set boundries, they got crossed. I learned that I need to write them down this time. Look back at them daily, and be very clear about them. Not too mention refer back to the boundry chapter of Beyond Codependancy. Im better than I was and am continuing to get better every day. Trial and error happens. We should never beat ourselves up for that, just reevaluate and move forward.

Mistakes are okay as long as we learn from them. Best of luck to everyone setting new boundries! You deserve healthy boundries and to have them respected!

lizatola

Thank you for sharing this. It reminds me that it's OK to re-set boundaries, to write them down and review them periodically to see if they're still valid. I am just learning how to do this but I find any reminder about boundaries is important to my recovery. Thanks!

Adventure

I second what lizatola said... thanks for this.... I need to learn how to do this big time!