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Old 04-27-2012, 10:12 AM
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Question If you could tell a new person ONE thing......

What would it be?

What experience/guidance or piece of advice would you give to a new person here looking for help?

I am only about 10 months sober myself, but from me it would be,


"It is NOT hopeless and your life CAN change. Please trust in that."
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Old 04-27-2012, 10:44 AM
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Let God direct. Follow HIM and find Peace.
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Old 04-27-2012, 10:46 AM
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Old 04-27-2012, 11:02 AM
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Don't give up, and if you slip up, pick yourself back up, find your sponsor or someone you can rely on, and get back on the sobriety wagon. Don't let yourself think you failed because its why people go back to the abuse of substances. YOU ARE WORTH IT.
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Old 04-27-2012, 11:05 AM
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It would be this post I started yesterday.

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...g-new-huh.html
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:31 PM
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I heard in a meeting:

"Life just sucks better sober".
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:37 PM
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For me, it is all about not trying to control things that I can't control.

Accept the things I cannot change.
Have the courage to change the things I can.
And, have the wisdom to know the difference.
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:45 PM
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Point out that even Ozzy got sober. If HE can do it anyone has the capacity.
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:55 PM
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I would tell them to please, please believe us when we say sober is better.
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That its never to late to start again, no matter how deep you have sunk..its never too late to start swimming back up to the top and get outa the waterrrrr :-)))) XX
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