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Old 04-26-2012, 12:24 PM
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Made it to Day 7

Just wanted to say thanks to everyone on this site for sharing their valuable stories and inspirations. It has helped me a lot this week.

I have made it to day 7, and while I know that isn't very long to go without alcohol...I feel I have made some progress at least. I refused alcohol on three occasions this week alone. By not drinking for this week, I already have insight into how much I drank before...I didn't really notice before if that makes sense.

It has been an interesting week...bit of an emotional rollercoaster. I have decided to quit and I mean it. My emotions are quite up and down...my depression and anxiety has come to the fore. But I think this is the step I needed to take. With eliminating alcohol, I can see that I will be able to process deep-seated issues that I have swept under the carpet for the last ten years. That's why I drank in the first place - to minimise these issues, to keep them quiet. Now I can't do that anymore, so the only thing to do is confront them.

I have a counselling appointment this afternoon, strategically placed straight after work so I have a legit excuse to not go to staff drinks!!!!
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Old 04-26-2012, 12:30 PM
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7 days is huge hun, im on day 6 and like you am so pleased ive come this far..each day is a step closer to where we wanna be hey..keep it up..ya doin great :-) XX
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cheers luv, same to you! Let's keep it going!!
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Ill drink to that...a cuppa of course :-)
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Old 04-26-2012, 12:36 PM
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Well done you two, i'm on day 16 today and feel fine:ghug3:ghug3
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Hey Candie :-) can i ask what benifits you have noticed emotionally and physically? 16 days is amazing!! xx
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Old 04-26-2012, 12:38 PM
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Well done Candie - that's great!
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Old 04-26-2012, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Seasidegirllau View Post
Hey Candie :-) can i ask what benifits you have noticed emotionally and physically? 16 days is amazing!! xx
I'm thinking clearer, sleeping better, and generally feel more relaxed and content, less jittery if that makes sense
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Oh that sure makes sense, isnt it great, i feel less stressed and can finally think straight too :-) looking forward to a weekend i can remember instead of one that flys by in a drunken haze!!! xx
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Oh that sure makes sense, isnt it great, i feel less stressed and can finally think straight too :-) looking forward to a weekend i can remember instead of one that flys by in a drunken haze!!! xx
Oh and the other thing is I don't feel that drunken guilt the morning after, and my OH isn't begging me to stop getting wasted lol
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Yes, its nice not to be beating ourselves up hey, wasted is soooo last year hee hee!! x
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Yes, its nice not to be beating ourselves up hey, wasted is soooo last year hee hee!! x
I was going to say p*ssed, but thought it might be classed as swearing on herelmao
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I'm thinking clearer, sleeping better, and generally feel more relaxed and content, less jittery if that makes sense
That sounds good to me. Much better than feeling anxious, paranoid, depressed and generally rubbish.
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Hey you lot, saw you come in here all scared, and now you are doing great
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I would call seven days real good progress...You should be proud. Good luck with your counselling appointment. And a rolercoaster is exactly what it's like...Just hang on and don't pick up...It gets better every day.
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congratulations Kelly

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I'm on 7 days too and I'm so happy to have gone a full week without drinking! The lack of guilt is the best part for me so far. It really saps your energy feeling bad all the time and just thinking about drinking/ not drinking etc. So good to give my head a rest from all that noise for a while.
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Good for you Marria...Keep at it!
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Well done Kelly, 7 days is huge x
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Thanks everyone for your encouraging remarks!
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