Another stupid mistake
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Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: dow, illinois
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Another stupid mistake
Just got payed and decided it was time to get my husband (Joe) meth addict , off our checking account , just in case. Joe said he would never touch the account, because all the money is mine( not theres that much) So i went today to change it over to just my name, and that S.O.B. TOOK 80 DOLLARS on Thursday. My electric bill money. I know i shouldnt have believed him, feel stupid once again. How could he, im having a hard enough time making it then this. I did text him and told him off but good. Havent hear nothing from him, didnt expect to anyway. But i was so mad and hurt. Hes off the account now and dont have that to worry about it now. But im so furious. Need to calm down and think. I wont let this happen again, lesson learned
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It's difficult to keep control over everything when everything has got so crazy. Well done for changing the account. The day I opened my new bank account so my X couldn't get to it, I felt so empowered. Even for the simple fact that I did it all by myself- he had me believe I couldn't do anything alone and I always needed him to speak for me.
It's very difficult to deal with the lying and stealing, isn't it? I personally almost found the stealing most heartbreaking out of everything (beyond the parenting issues). The first time I realised that the man I trusted to look after us and make everything ok has stolen my money and left me with nothing, I was destroyed. Every single time after that it broke me again and again, until eventually I grew used to sleeping with my money under my pillow. That's even sadder than the fact of him doing it I think.
Now he's broken that 'barrier' there's nothing to stop him doing it again, is what I mean.. I think.
It's very difficult to deal with the lying and stealing, isn't it? I personally almost found the stealing most heartbreaking out of everything (beyond the parenting issues). The first time I realised that the man I trusted to look after us and make everything ok has stolen my money and left me with nothing, I was destroyed. Every single time after that it broke me again and again, until eventually I grew used to sleeping with my money under my pillow. That's even sadder than the fact of him doing it I think.
Now he's broken that 'barrier' there's nothing to stop him doing it again, is what I mean.. I think.
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Open your eyes, think with your head..not your heart. He does not care if you have money or not, he does not care if you are living in a box on the street, he is an addict...he doesn't not care about anyone but himself...face it, accept it, protect yourself and your remaining assets.
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Joe said he would never touch the account
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