PoetryandHums

My AM just got became a clergyperson, and I have been thinking about it way more than I usually think about her. I truly believed that somewhere along the way someone would realize how dangerous she was, but she managed to come up with reasons to move onto new mentors/teachers/towns whenever that was about to happen. Now I'm just dreading the phone call when she really screws up, or god forbid hurts someone who is depending on her. (Typical ACA thinking, no?--"I wish people knew/it's going to be so bad when they find out!")

I guess if I'm not willing to do anything about it, I should just get the whole thing out of my head and deal with my own business. But I can't stop feeling this dread and responsibility--anyone relate? Advice?

Kialua

Wow what a problem, I can feel your pain, really. I've never had the situation you have with my folks. Though I did have a boss like that and wanted everyone to know. No one would listen to me. It does come from living an unfair life as a child and thinking that we should warn everyone for their own good. I understand. But it really isn't your responsibility until they ask. Even then, what can you do. Maybe she will be true to her patterns and just leave when trouble brews.