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Old 12-05-2011, 12:38 PM
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Just received an angry phone call, customer ripped me apart

I received a phone call a couple hours ago from any angry customer. She totally ripped me apart. I haven't felt that crappy in a LONG time. It's amazing how bad a complete stranger can make you feel in such a short amount of time.

I'm feeling better now, though still a little gunshy when I pick up the phone this afternoon. But, what doesn't kill me makes me stronger. At least these sort of phone calls are somewhat uncommon. Anyone else deal with needlessly, ridiculously angry customers?
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Old 12-05-2011, 12:39 PM
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Everyday...ugh.
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Old 12-05-2011, 12:42 PM
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Old 12-05-2011, 01:04 PM
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Sure do. I try to not let them have the satisfaction of impacting my day Doesnt always work though.
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Old 12-05-2011, 01:11 PM
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Yep. Boy do I have some stories. Grin and bare it. Much easier now that you are sober.
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I'm a teacher and I deal with unruly kids daily and it's much easier since I haven't been drinking. I like to think I can handle myself better with a clear mind.
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Old 12-05-2011, 03:21 PM
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I have and have actually gotten upset to the point of tears over it....as I have aged, I have learned it's about them....sad they have to display anger that way--dumping it on you! Try not to give them the power to change your mood.
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Old 12-05-2011, 03:39 PM
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Yup. I spend every day on the phone, but only get REALLY angry people once in a while. I'd like to think it doesn't affect me, and normally it doesn't, but every so often they get me going.
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Old 12-05-2011, 03:44 PM
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When you're working with the public it hard not to take problems personally. That is a huge undertaking to continue your conversation, doing what's best for the customer AND trying to keep your sanity.
I had plumbing company. Customers that come home from work at 5pm and have water spewing from leaking pipes are not happy and expect it fixed -it has now become MY problem. The anger customers hold is vented at anyone convenient. I had learned alot of sympathy and empathy and try to sit back and really feel how this has affected the customers life.
But, OTOH, then you get the whackos that no matter what you say YOU ARE WRONG! LOL
I had a lady yesterday at my job that was not a happy customer. Luckily, I hadn't been the one that took care of her and the employee that had had quite a surprise waiting for him in the parking lot when he returned from lunch!! Not a good day.
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Old 12-05-2011, 04:00 PM
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Vigo sorry to hear you had to bear the brunt of an angry customer. I am not sure if you are early in sobriety or not these kinds of situations can be a lot more upsetting when you are getting sober.

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Old 12-05-2011, 05:39 PM
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Thanks to everyone for your responses, I really appreciate it!
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Old 12-05-2011, 05:42 PM
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Sounds like righteous me when drinking & blaming others....
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