CagedBird

My AH is being such an ASS this morning.

We need $130 more to pay rent. He's giving me HELL about getting it from him, even though I am using my ENTIRE paycheck for the rest.

Meanwhile, he's taking his DS bowling.



WTF!



I'm doing everything I can to stay calm, but I just want to break things! I'm so angry! I cannot wait to get out of here!!!!!

XXXXXXXXXX

Don't forget the feeling you have now when he turns around and tries to manipulate you to stay. Sorry for your frustrations.

CagedBird

I won't. If I had the means I would be gone already.

I just have to keep telling myself I'm almost there.



Ugh! He had the nerve to tell me "Something's got to change" and make it out like this whole money thing is MY fault... when EVERY CENT that I get paid goes right into bills, and he spends $300 a month on booze and is taking his DS bowling (about $35) for the second weekend in a row!

To that I say EFF YOU!

I got your change right here! Let's see how you like it!

Willybluedog

I know some people will tell you to take a deep breath and find your center, I prefer to just get out and walk it off, so sorry for what you are going through.

I will be here if you want to vent or talk, big hus to you.

Bill

chronsweet

Well, you do know that he DOES have to have money for his alcohol, his one and true first love and responsibility. Who are YOU to THINK that he is going to give that up for you??? (Sarcasm).

Yes sweetie, I go through this too. I make it clear that I will NOT pay his portion of the rent. I make him give me half of all the bills now. He didn't use to at all, but I just tell him now that I will simply pay my half and if I have to go somewhere after that, then it is on him.

Hugs to you.

dollydo

IMO time to move on, this will not get any better, there is no future with this guy.

CagedBird

I agree, Dolly. I am working on my exit. I'm going with a realtor to look at apts in 2 weeks. I'm looking forward to it.

dollydo

Good for you!