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Old 11-19-2011, 08:57 PM
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he's worried

There's. Just been so much fighting going on, and things calm down for a few days and then something gets said and it starts again. I know this pattern. We used to have it before, most likely when he increases the amount he drinks. Last time I told him not to worry I was going to take care of me, now he is concerned because I am distant. He doesn't understand why and i know better than to try and explain it. Just don't know how long we can go on like this.
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Old 11-20-2011, 03:09 AM
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"Caughtup"... I too am in this cycle of ups and downs and I HAVE explained the situation to the A, but it doesn't seem to matter. I am sorry you are going through this. My new strategy is to not get on the elevator. I hope things calm down soon for you... I am thinking of you.
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Old 11-20-2011, 09:40 AM
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Let him worry. Continue to take care of yourself.
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Old 11-20-2011, 09:42 AM
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And I will be thinking of you as well my friend. At first I thought was worried about me, how silly. That would be if he were normal but he is concerned about the relationship and how HE will be impacted
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