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Well once again I just couldnt get to that airport. I swear I dont know what is holding me here. Its like I have a panic attack every time its time to go to the dam place. This is plane number 4 that I have missed in a month.
Good news tho, I havent gotten high in 2 days. I have been staying inside for the past week. And today I am starting to look for a job.
I have met someone that is helping and took me into their home and is enmcouraging me to be better.
I have known him for a littel while but about 2 weeks ago he told me I could stay with him and he would help me as long as I did what I was suppose to do.
So it has been paying off so far. I am not ruhe streets anymore and I am starting to stay away from all the people and drugs. Even tho I am still right in the middle of the area.
I know it isnt the answer to the big picture. But it is a start. Once I get established a luittle more I will look ionto some type of counceling and treatment.
I am going to find some NA meetings as well. I need to make an effort here.
I am not even trying and didnt from day one that I got back here.
I am tired. I am sick of almost dieing all the time. I am ready to live and move forward with a real normal life.
That stabbing really messed me up. At first it didnt hit me at all. But little by little it is affecting me. I see the seriousness of it and I see that I am dwelling on things. I see how when I just burst out talkign about it for some reason how emotional I get now. So i know it had to have done something to me.
I never want to experience that again.
Thats the closest to death I have ever come.
When I was blacking out I thought for sure that was me slipping away. I cant even begin to explain that feeling.
Anyway, I know this isnt really what you all probably want to hear but its a start for me.
Its alot better than not giving a crap at all/ At least I have some hope and drive now as before I just wanted to keep killing myself.
Good news tho, I havent gotten high in 2 days. I have been staying inside for the past week. And today I am starting to look for a job.
I have met someone that is helping and took me into their home and is enmcouraging me to be better.
I have known him for a littel while but about 2 weeks ago he told me I could stay with him and he would help me as long as I did what I was suppose to do.
So it has been paying off so far. I am not ruhe streets anymore and I am starting to stay away from all the people and drugs. Even tho I am still right in the middle of the area.
I know it isnt the answer to the big picture. But it is a start. Once I get established a luittle more I will look ionto some type of counceling and treatment.
I am going to find some NA meetings as well. I need to make an effort here.
I am not even trying and didnt from day one that I got back here.
I am tired. I am sick of almost dieing all the time. I am ready to live and move forward with a real normal life.
That stabbing really messed me up. At first it didnt hit me at all. But little by little it is affecting me. I see the seriousness of it and I see that I am dwelling on things. I see how when I just burst out talkign about it for some reason how emotional I get now. So i know it had to have done something to me.
I never want to experience that again.
Thats the closest to death I have ever come.
When I was blacking out I thought for sure that was me slipping away. I cant even begin to explain that feeling.
Anyway, I know this isnt really what you all probably want to hear but its a start for me.
Its alot better than not giving a crap at all/ At least I have some hope and drive now as before I just wanted to keep killing myself.
Aysha,
I have been following your posts, and was glad to read your update today. It sounds like your situation is a little better - just do what you are supposed to do, ok? I am glad that you are at least somewhere safe.
I think you are going to go through a lot more emotion about that stabbing. Man, that was horrifying to read about.
I know some of the things that I did to myself that I knew were bad then, it took getting sober for awhile to take a step back and look how serious some of those things that happened (and that I did) were. And that is good. I need to realize how serious this stuff really is. People are dying (or getting killed) every day because of substance abuse/reckless behavior resulting from it. This is not a joke - I am much more serious about all this now that I see it from a distance. It is actually this that is keeping me sober more than anything else. I realize that I was in really, really bad shape. I knew it then, but did not realize the extent, even though I knew I was living on the edge.
Hang in there, and if you can't get on that blasted plane at least stay safe and sober. Elizabeth
I have been following your posts, and was glad to read your update today. It sounds like your situation is a little better - just do what you are supposed to do, ok? I am glad that you are at least somewhere safe.
I think you are going to go through a lot more emotion about that stabbing. Man, that was horrifying to read about.
I know some of the things that I did to myself that I knew were bad then, it took getting sober for awhile to take a step back and look how serious some of those things that happened (and that I did) were. And that is good. I need to realize how serious this stuff really is. People are dying (or getting killed) every day because of substance abuse/reckless behavior resulting from it. This is not a joke - I am much more serious about all this now that I see it from a distance. It is actually this that is keeping me sober more than anything else. I realize that I was in really, really bad shape. I knew it then, but did not realize the extent, even though I knew I was living on the edge.
Hang in there, and if you can't get on that blasted plane at least stay safe and sober. Elizabeth
I have been following your posts too and worry for you. Your post today sounds a lot better than anything you have posted in a long time . I do hope you continue to stay of the drugs and get some professional help.
Look after yourself and stay safe.
Look after yourself and stay safe.
(((Trish))) - I, too, am glad to hear you sounding a bit more positive. I can only imagine the emotions that have reared their ugly heads with the stabbing. It took a while for them to hit me when I got pistol-whipped and robbed, but I was lucky that several people here understood PTSD and helped me through it.
Take care of you, sweetie.
Love, hugs and prayers,
Amy
Take care of you, sweetie.
Love, hugs and prayers,
Amy
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