ZombieWife

I'm usually over on the friends/family of substance abusers, (husband is a recovering addict).

But, I also have some "practicing" alcoholics in the family. My father has been in recovery for 20+ years, but I have a stepfather and two brothers who are drowning in alcohol.

I just need someone to help support me. My brothers got into a big blow-out tonight. Both had been drinking. Both were visiting my home. (they live about 8 hours away.)

In short, unresolved issues (theirs) surfaced.
There were fireworks of the physical and verbal type.

I just need some support in detaching here. I'm feeling myself pulled in by two sides and this is not my problem. I work alanon (and naranon) but tonight, I'd just like a few fluffy hugs and smilies and such.

Thank you for indulging a tired ole woman.

JustAYak

Thumper

I'm sorry That sounds stressful and difficult, especially right in your own home. I hope they have found their own spots to land tonight so you wake up with peace and a hot cup of coffee - if you do the coffee thing!

heres2hope

I'm sorry that you are going through such a hard time. Hopefully you were able to let them work things out on their own an d you were able to do something for yourself. Send g you good thoughts and lots of hugs.

Seeking Wisdom

I can't imagine what that would be like - one is bad enough.

Hope this is going to be a short visit.

When I had difficult visitors - I just keep "visualizing" with giddy anticipation ... the blissful moment that they would head out the door to finally go home.

Hope you survive living in "crazyville" and can find a boatload of patience to get your through.
Either that ... or go to the store, and don't reappear again - until after they have left.

roxiestone

I hope everything is better this morning.

HopefulWifeHere

I hope things are better this morning. I have family like that, and it just knots up my stomach when they do that.

m1k3

((((hugs))))

I hope things are better today. Focus on yourself, as you know this isn't your problem so avoid being sucked into it. Good luck and strength being sent your way.

Your friend,

Seren

((ZW)) Huge hugs, sorry you had to go through that.

Any way to draw a "I will not allow drunken behavior or brawls in my home" boundary with these two? Could go a long way toward peace.....

:ghug3