Notices

Day 2 of Sobriety

Thread Tools
 
Old 07-06-2011, 05:07 PM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 45
Day 2 of Sobriety

This is my first real attempt to quit drinking and I am terrified! It took me a year to realize my drinking was a large reason for my divorce last year and I have 3 beautiful little girls who now have a split family because of it. My ex was good, solid, wonderful man and I lost him because of my irrational behaviors when I would drink! I did something over the weekend (well, during my 3 day "binge" that horrified me and I realize if I am going to be any kind of a mother to these precious gifts, the alcohol has to stop NOW...I am praying for the strength to do it...
snoopy1973 is offline  
Old 07-06-2011, 05:24 PM
  # 2 (permalink)  
Administrator
 
Dee74's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 211,386
Welcome snoopy

It really is possible to leave the past behind and become the person you know you really are - you'll find a lot of support here.

D
Dee74 is offline  
Old 07-06-2011, 05:25 PM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Administrator
 
Anna's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Dancing in the Light
Posts: 61,476
Hi and Welcome,

It's quite awful when we realize what's happened to us. I hated the woman I became when I was drinking and the self-hatred intensified my downward spiral.

Know that you can stop drinking and live a sober life and we are here to offer support.
Anna is offline  
Old 07-06-2011, 08:52 PM
  # 4 (permalink)  
Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude
 
Zencat's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Oxnard (The Nard), CA, USA.
Posts: 13,900
Well done on day 2.

Changing the direction of my like took some learning and practice to get free from alcohol. Keep going forward in your recovery.
Zencat is offline  
Old 07-06-2011, 10:26 PM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: So Cal
Posts: 17
i really reccomend going to AA. its a really great program, and it might be tough the first few times. I just had my second meeting today and it really is the only thing keeping me going. That, The AA big book, This forum, and support from friends kept me going.
Fender22 is offline  
Old 07-06-2011, 10:36 PM
  # 6 (permalink)  
Powerless over Alcohol
 
IndaMiricale's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Trudging the Road to Happy Destiny!
Posts: 4,018
for sure welcome and keep comin back
IndaMiricale is offline  
Old 07-07-2011, 04:20 AM
  # 7 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: connecticut usa
Posts: 4
Snoopy, today is day 10 for me. Hang in there and remember your little girls are worth every ounce of suffering.

Know that every day gets a little easier. Food tastes much better, sleep is real (as opposed to passing out). Mental clarity greatly improves. You'll be calmer, friendlier and more positive. But it will take time.

I stole this next line from the Marine Corps, where my son is currently undergoing the Office Candidate School program. "Pain is temporary, pride is forever:.
beerdad1 is offline  
Old 07-07-2011, 05:37 AM
  # 8 (permalink)  
Member
 
Zebra1275's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2009
Posts: 14,916
Welcome Snoppy, so what's your plan? Having a desire to quit is often not enough, additional action is usually needed. For me, that is AA.
Zebra1275 is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:56 PM.