It finally Killed him

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Old 05-25-2011, 12:41 PM
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It finally Killed him

Yes, he died Monday night, at home, while he was sleeping or suffering. Gastrointestial hemerage. 23 years we we're married. I warned him. He didn't want to change. Or couldn't change.
Everybody is shocked. I'm surprised so many people didn't know. I thought it was obvious.
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Old 05-25-2011, 12:44 PM
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I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Old 05-25-2011, 12:46 PM
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So sorry to hear of your loss. Not sure what else can be said at a time like this...
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Old 05-25-2011, 12:49 PM
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He didn't want to change. Or couldn't change.
Hi Room6er-

I'm a recovered alcoholic and hearing this literally shakes me to the core.

I'm so sorry and it's very, very sad for everyone involved.

Kjell~
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So sorry for your loss. Sending hugs today.
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*prayers* am very sorry for your loss.
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Old 05-25-2011, 12:53 PM
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Addiction is so sad... so ugly. My prayers go out to you and your family.
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I'm so sorry, Room6er. Wishing you peace and continued strength.
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Old 05-25-2011, 01:03 PM
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There are no words that can truly express the proper emotions for such heartbreaking news.
This disease steals so much, and whatever it takes is never enough, until there's nothing left.
I'm so sorry.

We are here for you.
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Old 05-25-2011, 01:23 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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I am very sorry for your loss. Prayers to you today...
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I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
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Old 05-25-2011, 01:39 PM
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Welcome back Room6er. I hope you'll feel the support here all these wonderful people can offer, and stick around and join us often.

We want you to know you are important to us, and we care about your journey - now through grief, rage, confusion. We'll go with you, if you want.

Sending condolences for your loss,

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Old 05-25-2011, 01:41 PM
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I am so very sorry for your loss. so very very sorry.

And I want to apologize, I just started a thread about my husband who nearly died with cirrhossis 4 months ago but is now doing better.

It was thoughtless of me not to look at recent other threads to make sure my update wouldnt be too insensitive at this time. Im so sorry
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss.
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I'm sorry for your loss roo6mer

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Old 05-25-2011, 02:01 PM
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My sincere condolences to you and your family.
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Old 05-25-2011, 02:17 PM
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I am sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

I thank HP that he has found his peace and his demons are now gone.

Love and hugs,
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