Its ok to say No
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Its ok to say No
Things have been ok with me. I wont lie, I did snoop a few weeks ago. I realize this hurts ME. Whenever I get the urge I tell myself to stop and I come here to read.
Before X mas ah saw a Dr. because of some pain he's in. Long story short... AH claims dr. will not call him back. A few weeks ago I suggested Ah call family Dr. have them call Dr. and let them relay results to AH. I only made this suggestion because Im so sick of hearing him talk about this situation. THis Dr. AH saw is a Dr. I took my daughter too (an orthopedic surgeon) Both me and daughter LOVED him. There is a reason this wonderful Dr. isnt calling AH back.
AH brings Dr. up tonight. Again I suggest calling family Dr. He tells ME TO DO IT for him. I told him NO. No, period, end of sentence. Needless to say he didnt like hearing NO.
Now he's on this rant about how selfish I AM. Grrrr.I can not think of one good reason why I should make that call. Not one. It felt good to say No and mean it. In the past I would have said yes, when I wanted to say no. Then It would take me a long time to actually call( because i didnt want to call in the first place) , All the while AH would get on ME about when I was gonna call for HIM. Im feeling pretty good about myself.
Before X mas ah saw a Dr. because of some pain he's in. Long story short... AH claims dr. will not call him back. A few weeks ago I suggested Ah call family Dr. have them call Dr. and let them relay results to AH. I only made this suggestion because Im so sick of hearing him talk about this situation. THis Dr. AH saw is a Dr. I took my daughter too (an orthopedic surgeon) Both me and daughter LOVED him. There is a reason this wonderful Dr. isnt calling AH back.
AH brings Dr. up tonight. Again I suggest calling family Dr. He tells ME TO DO IT for him. I told him NO. No, period, end of sentence. Needless to say he didnt like hearing NO.
Now he's on this rant about how selfish I AM. Grrrr.I can not think of one good reason why I should make that call. Not one. It felt good to say No and mean it. In the past I would have said yes, when I wanted to say no. Then It would take me a long time to actually call( because i didnt want to call in the first place) , All the while AH would get on ME about when I was gonna call for HIM. Im feeling pretty good about myself.
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Thanks for the support. Hugs Callie, I've been dealing with this man and HIS issues for 20 years! Im 37. So, not such a quick learner. I tell myself to keep taking those baby steps in the right direction. Hang in there.
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