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Old 01-20-2011, 05:49 AM
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Need To Let Go

Hello,

This is my first post here. I'm looking for some support and guidance in healing from an old relationship with an alcoholic/addict. This relationship ended 13 years ago, but I still think about him every day. I have a good life now and am married with children. However, I can't get past the pain of what I went through years ago. I was with him for six years, and I was young. It was the most painful thing I've ever experienced. I've been through extensive therapy over the years, but here I am--still unable to let go. I have a great husband, friends, and family, but I feel very uncomfortable talking about this with anyone. I'm just looking for some support in finding my way.

Thank you!
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Old 01-20-2011, 06:08 AM
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Welcome Lala. You might want to check out the friends and family forum. Best wishes.

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Old 01-20-2011, 07:39 AM
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Old 01-20-2011, 07:53 AM
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Welcome!

I hope you can find a way to heal your pain.
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Old 01-20-2011, 01:41 PM
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Old 01-20-2011, 02:12 PM
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I don't know if you have checked out the Friends Of section yet, Lala, but I agree with the suggestion that was made above. I don't think alcoholics would be useless to converse with at all, but I suspect there is a lot of supportive wisdom to get out of the conversations had by the people who have lived AROUND alcoholics/drug users.
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