done
perpetual optimist
Thread Starter
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Montana
Posts: 2,959
done
I am sooooooooo tired. How can it be so hard to quit. I sit here with my head in my hands,,,,,,,,,,my wonderful cat is looking at me......I really suck.....how can I treat my BF and my cat this way?????????
I need to go away, cannot bring you all down....do love ya guys........
I need to go away, cannot bring you all down....do love ya guys........
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 211,382
The very *worst* thing you can do is go away VC.
Get some rest, come back tomorrow, roll your sleeves up - and tackle this thing.
We've all been there - I've been there - we can philosophise and beat ourselves up until the cows come home...but it doesn't really do us any good.
Actions the key VC - it's like getting in the pool...if you dither you may never do it...just dive in.
I know you can make tomorrow day one
You're not alone in this. We understand. Don't push the helping hands away.
D
Get some rest, come back tomorrow, roll your sleeves up - and tackle this thing.
We've all been there - I've been there - we can philosophise and beat ourselves up until the cows come home...but it doesn't really do us any good.
Actions the key VC - it's like getting in the pool...if you dither you may never do it...just dive in.
I know you can make tomorrow day one
You're not alone in this. We understand. Don't push the helping hands away.
D
Member
Join Date: May 2010
Location: British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 1,149
Don't go away VC, you are not bringing us down.
Most of us have been there and back, many times.
You hang in there my friend.
You've done it before and I know you can do it again.
Tomorrow is another day.
We will be here for you.
Most of us have been there and back, many times.
You hang in there my friend.
You've done it before and I know you can do it again.
Tomorrow is another day.
We will be here for you.
A work in progress
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: South Jersey
Posts: 16,633
You think you're so powerful that you are going to bring the rest of us "down"? Not likely.
Feeling beaten up and defeated is where most of us had to be before we could just give up the fight.
Just. Give. Up.
Have you considered AA? If not (or even if you have) this might be a good time...
Feeling beaten up and defeated is where most of us had to be before we could just give up the fight.
Just. Give. Up.
Have you considered AA? If not (or even if you have) this might be a good time...
Member
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Up, Up and Away
Posts: 434
Hey VC. It's kind of a trite old saying, but today is the first day of the rest of your life. That makes it a good day to begin a better life.
Keep reading around the forum. You'll see that we have all been in a situation similar to yours. You can change things! I'm glad you came back this morning.
Keep reading around the forum. You'll see that we have all been in a situation similar to yours. You can change things! I'm glad you came back this morning.
Member
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Baton Rouge, La.
Posts: 15,236
I learned that I couldn't
stay sober by doing it
myself. I had to learn
by listening and following
suggestions by many that
have stayed sober before
me.
If they can stay sober a day
at a time then so could I.
I realized that then and
still do today that I never
have to go thru anything
by myself again.
The fellowship and support
of others traveling the same
road of recovery as I makes
staying sober a better fun
way of life.
Glad your here.
stay sober by doing it
myself. I had to learn
by listening and following
suggestions by many that
have stayed sober before
me.
If they can stay sober a day
at a time then so could I.
I realized that then and
still do today that I never
have to go thru anything
by myself again.
The fellowship and support
of others traveling the same
road of recovery as I makes
staying sober a better fun
way of life.
Glad your here.
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