Tips for dealing with an Active Al Mom
Tips for dealing with an Active Al Mom
She is angry at me for calling her out on her ******** and knows I know she's been living a lie because I confronted her and it was proven.
Anyway, she is manipulating, controlling and sick and suffering like all of us.
My daughter won't stay away from her! I don't interfere, but I don't like it.
Anyway, my daughter stays there when she comes home from College. Am resentful and frightened for my daughter.
Long ago, I asked my mom to give her all of the good things that she instilled in me and leave out the rest.
She's crazy! We are barely on speaking terms, althoug she knows how much I love her.
And why do I love her so much anyway! ugh. It's infurating.
I divorced her back in 2005! I declared that I was divorcing my mother!
HELP!
Anyway, she is manipulating, controlling and sick and suffering like all of us.
My daughter won't stay away from her! I don't interfere, but I don't like it.
Anyway, my daughter stays there when she comes home from College. Am resentful and frightened for my daughter.
Long ago, I asked my mom to give her all of the good things that she instilled in me and leave out the rest.
She's crazy! We are barely on speaking terms, althoug she knows how much I love her.
And why do I love her so much anyway! ugh. It's infurating.
I divorced her back in 2005! I declared that I was divorcing my mother!
HELP!
Hey there Spirit
First things first.
First focus on _your_ recovery. Cuz otherwise nothing else will do you any good. So how you doing with meetings? Sponsor? Steps?
After you've got that done, and you are feeling comfortable with your progress in that area, then you move on to other parts of your life you want to work on. That would be al-anon, or CODA, or a therapist.
Whadya think?
Mike
First things first.
First focus on _your_ recovery. Cuz otherwise nothing else will do you any good. So how you doing with meetings? Sponsor? Steps?
After you've got that done, and you are feeling comfortable with your progress in that area, then you move on to other parts of your life you want to work on. That would be al-anon, or CODA, or a therapist.
Whadya think?
Mike
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