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Old 09-28-2010, 06:20 PM
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Day one again, again.

Well, I'm back. Day One again. Finished a bottle of wine (not the classy, tiny kind) without eating last night, felt terrible all day today. pfffffffffft I'm frustrated.
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Old 09-28-2010, 06:28 PM
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Glad you're back starting over again. Better to start over than to continue down that dark road.
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Old 09-28-2010, 06:36 PM
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Welcome back Maggi

What's done is done.

What you need to think about now is what you need to add to what you did last time - whether it's adjusting yr expectations, or making a more definite plan, joining a face to face recovery group, or seeing a counsellor or a doctor...whatever.

You can do this
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Old 09-28-2010, 06:41 PM
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Welcome back, Maggi!

What can you learn from that experience so that it doesn't happen again?

Good for you for starting again.
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Old 09-28-2010, 06:50 PM
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So sorry you're not feeling well, Maggi. I'm glad you're here talking about it, though. I had to remind myself over and over again those first weeks exactly why I really wanted to quit. I think hanging out here a lot really helped drill that into my brain.

Hope tomorrow is much, much better and that you're able to get back on track.
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Old 09-28-2010, 11:59 PM
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Old 09-29-2010, 01:11 AM
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Hi Maggie

The good thing is you've come back. O.k you slipped up. Give yourself a good talking to, learn from it, put it behind you and start again. Todays another day. Keep posting and let us know how you'r doing.

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Old 09-29-2010, 06:03 AM
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Yeah, learn from it and then do something about it. Take action, even if it's a small thing just do it. It's a start. We all have fallen down - the difference is hey are you gonna pull yourself back up again? You won't regret getting sober, but you WILL regret drinking. I have faith in you.
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Old 09-29-2010, 06:28 AM
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I agree with all of the above, just wanted to let you know I am supporting you in your sobriety

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Old 09-29-2010, 11:27 AM
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I've had so many day ones I couldn't even begin to count them.
I'm finaly making it though. 9 months. It can be done.

Don't dwell on it, just begin again and make it stick whatever it takes.

Best to you!
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Old 09-29-2010, 11:33 AM
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Good luck, Maggi.

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Old 09-29-2010, 11:53 AM
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Welcome back Maggi.....kinda hard to have restart....huh. Pick up from this and make it the last time you ever have to feel this way. I know you can do it!!
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Old 09-29-2010, 12:00 PM
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Many of us had false starts before we found our way
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Old 09-29-2010, 12:09 PM
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relapse happens. it doesn't have to, but frequently does, and is a part of my story. the key thing for me after relapse was to do something different. if what i was doing led to relapse i have to do something different in order to not relapse. simple, right?

what were you doing for your recovery before the relapse?
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Old 09-29-2010, 12:33 PM
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It's not the end of the world Maggi. Your back, and thats all you can do for now. Keep trying Hope you feel better.
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Old 09-29-2010, 03:08 PM
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After 127 days sober, I too am back on day 1. Ironically this was after the first AA meeting I went to in a month.
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Old 09-29-2010, 04:14 PM
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Sorry to hear that Roy.
Glad you're back too tho.

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Old 09-30-2010, 06:24 AM
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sorry to hear about your relapses guys. so what are you going to do differently this time around?
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