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09-22-2010, 09:47 AM

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barb dwyer

same planet...different world

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OT = update... nothing big.

Hi -

Well, as I figured -
the 'control freak' took over
and the group is now fighting over the computer
they bought

for ME to use.

So I handed them back everything...

and urged them to become far more sexually active.

with themselves.

In a sort of ...
humorous but definitely...
coloquiallaly explicit vulgar fashion.

Running backwards.

in an email that went out to eighteen people.

*thoughtful pause to visualize*

No one
and I mean NO ONE
is allowed to treat me badly any more
even under the guise of 'recovery'.

I don't take that crap off anyone any more.

Even them.

It's all to do with that
practicing these Principals in all our affairs.

SO!!!!

That's why no one's seen me
I am now only able to get online
either by phone
or by
coming to the computer lab here at school.

I am thinking of you,
and keeping all in my nightly prayers..

missing everyone!

stay well!

DONT GIVE UP!!

09-22-2010, 09:51 AM

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Learn2Live

To thine own self be true.

Join Date: May 2009

Location: U.S.A.

Posts: 5,924

Thanks for the update! Good for you for letting go in order to get rid of the toxicity!

09-22-2010, 11:35 AM

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coyote21

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Join Date: Aug 2006

Location: Beautiful Texas hillcountry

Posts: 1,272

Quote:

Originally Posted by barb dwyer

Hi -

So I handed them back everything...

in an email that went out to eighteen people.

and urged them to become far more sexually active.

with themselves.

In a sort of ...
humorous but definitely...
coloquiallaly explicit vulgar fashion.

*thoughtful pause to visualize*

No one
and I mean NO ONE
is allowed to treat me badly any more
even under the guise of 'recovery'.

DONT GIVE UP!!

Nice. Good to see you got out with you sense of humor intact, it's so very important to our health.

Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote

09-22-2010, 12:18 PM

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ItsmeAlice

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Join Date: Jan 2009

Posts: 1,888

Bravo!!!

Keep standing up for yourself and stating your boundaries.
Sometimes we have to go to plan B, but if it maintains our serenity and sanity then plan B was really the way to go in the first place, right?

So glad you are staying in the positive!

Alice

09-22-2010, 12:55 PM

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nodaybut2day

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Join Date: Sep 2009

Location: Quebec

Posts: 2,708

Quote:

Originally Posted by barb dwyer

So I handed them back everything...

and urged them to become far more sexually active.

with themselves.

In a sort of ...
humorous but definitely...
coloquiallaly explicit vulgar fashion.

Priceless!

09-22-2010, 07:15 PM

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Lola1024

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Join Date: Jun 2010

Location: California

Posts: 182

Yeah for standing up for yourself !

09-24-2010, 09:27 AM

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barb dwyer

same planet...different world

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Location: Butte, America

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YES !!!

And -

just need to throw that in -

it wasn't really INTENDED to go to EVERYONE -
just the one pushy guy.

but i got so mad
i didn't see that it was a big group mailing... LMAO

Long talk with my sponsor last night -

I got my first "A" - in writing!!!!

we had a great conversation...

she sneaked over here to sr and viewed
so now she understands better
how much being here means to me
and -
how well it compliments other sobriety tools.

love y'all!!