Dumped...
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Dumped...
That's what I did this morning. I dumped out what was left from last night. I know, I should have done it yesterday, and not continued to drink. But, knowing what is right doesn't mean that I always do what is right.
Im the midst of my drinking last night, I told my friend that I was so mad and hurt about the changes in our friendship, and that was why I was drinking. That wasn't fair of me. I can't try to put the blame on someone else just because I don't want to take responsibility. But, my friend understood. Said that I was justified in feeling that way, and if this was the only way that I knew to deal with pain, then they wouldn't stand in my way.
So now we are at today. I was four hours late to work, but my boss didn't care. Perhaps if I knew that there would have been reprocussions, I would have been here on time, feeling crappy. But instead, I stayed in bed and slept it off.
Im the midst of my drinking last night, I told my friend that I was so mad and hurt about the changes in our friendship, and that was why I was drinking. That wasn't fair of me. I can't try to put the blame on someone else just because I don't want to take responsibility. But, my friend understood. Said that I was justified in feeling that way, and if this was the only way that I knew to deal with pain, then they wouldn't stand in my way.
So now we are at today. I was four hours late to work, but my boss didn't care. Perhaps if I knew that there would have been reprocussions, I would have been here on time, feeling crappy. But instead, I stayed in bed and slept it off.
That was a good decision, Trixie.
And, it's good that you see that it's not your friend's fault. It was really hard for me to accept that I was responsible for myself, but it's a necessity for recovery.
And, it's good that you see that it's not your friend's fault. It was really hard for me to accept that I was responsible for myself, but it's a necessity for recovery.
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My roommate said that he is going to mark today on the calender. He said he never thought that he would see the day I would pour out alcohol. It was kinda funny, actually. He came into the kitchen and saw me, and walked away, like maybe he thought I wanted to be alone while I was doing it...but then he came back into the kitchen and just stood there and watched me, like he was mesmerized or something. He said that he was really proud of me, which made me feel good.
Forward we go...side by side-Rest In Peace
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I really hope this will be your final round for
drinking alcohol...
Drinking just harms everyone in so many ways.
For instance....jobs usually depend on performing
whatever duties they require.
Best done when you are sober and on time.
drinking alcohol...
Drinking just harms everyone in so many ways.
For instance....jobs usually depend on performing
whatever duties they require.
Best done when you are sober and on time.
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