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I am okay.
This lady knocked on my door for a long time, but I waited it out. I've already told her before about coming over and not respecting me when I don't feel like company.
But not only does she keep banging on the door, she also keeps turning the door knob really loudly, like she's trying to open the door but she can't because it's locked.
If I didn't have my door locked, she would come on in.
It's just annoying to me because I don't always feel like company.
And when I don't feel like company, people just cannot come and sit outside of my door until I open it.
I don't appreciate that at all and it's rude and disrespectful to me.
This lady knocked on my door for a long time, but I waited it out. I've already told her before about coming over and not respecting me when I don't feel like company.
But not only does she keep banging on the door, she also keeps turning the door knob really loudly, like she's trying to open the door but she can't because it's locked.
If I didn't have my door locked, she would come on in.
It's just annoying to me because I don't always feel like company.
And when I don't feel like company, people just cannot come and sit outside of my door until I open it.
I don't appreciate that at all and it's rude and disrespectful to me.
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I know 2 people who will come to my apartment and try to hang out by my door even after I don't answer for them knocking. I'd be hoping they would take the hint when I don't answer the door for them, but then they start banging really loudly and I don't want it disturbing my neighbors.
I'm just going to have to talk to these people and tell them that I don't appreciate that at all.
I'm just going to have to talk to these people and tell them that I don't appreciate that at all.
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Letting them know that you don't appreciate what they are doing is something you are going to have to do. Let them know that you don't want them to do it again and you don't want them hanging out at your door. Myself, I would tell them that if they don't stop I will call the cops. Nobody has the right to do what they are doing.
Right now you are going through enough, you don't need that too.
Take care,
Harry
Right now you are going through enough, you don't need that too.
Take care,
Harry
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These people are certainly persistent.
They're people I know.
One time one lady was down in the parking lot and I came down and she was standing out there yelling at me.
She is just very bossy and pushy. And I don't need anymore people adding stress to my life.
And it doesn't cross their minds that I might not be home. Just because the car is in the parking lot, doesn't mean that I'm home.
They're people I know.
One time one lady was down in the parking lot and I came down and she was standing out there yelling at me.
She is just very bossy and pushy. And I don't need anymore people adding stress to my life.
And it doesn't cross their minds that I might not be home. Just because the car is in the parking lot, doesn't mean that I'm home.
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I'm with Harry, if they cannot listen to you telling them not to be there, and will not respect your privacy and space, I'd tell them I will call the cops. And then call the cops the next they show up.
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Well, unless you can afford to move, far away from them, tell them the next time they are there, pounding on your door or just sitting on your porch. (they are trespassing), you'll call the cops. Obviously, they are not friends.
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Originally Posted by BrokenChains 
Trying to get me to do stuff I don't want to do. They're alcoholics as well.
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