Ceres

Hey hey!

I'm in a very grateful mood today. I have a wonderful sense of empowerment and I see a future for myself that's very bright. This is awsome. I'm not broken, I'm not damaged, I'm a Codie! Proud of it!

There's a name to my behaviors. Grounded descriptions of what I do and why I do it. More importantly, I'm not alone! I'm not phycho, crazy, desperate, or a b*tch. I'm codependent. :-D Like in AA recovery, when we say "I know exactly what the future would be if I continue to drink, I have no idea what the future can hold if I'm sober". Same thing here. If I don't work on these codie issues. I know exactly what would happen. I'd be involved with the same man I've alway's been involved with. Same guy, different skin over-and-over-and-over again. Don't know what my future holds now. But, I think I could be done dating that "guy"!

I love being alone. I love nobody in my bed. I love running my own life without being attached with claw marks. I finally feel in control, because I haven't anyone to control but ME!

<hugs>

freefalling

We love you too- and I like your new outfit!!!

transformyself

Yeah Momma! Set it up.

TakingCharge999

I prefer to say "I am a human being, with some harmful codie tendencies that I can identify, mitigate and trascend"

Ceres

^
Yeah, buddy! That's what I meant. ;-)

Satya

transformyself

Awrite Trapeze Girl, how ya feeling today? Still grateful?