So I filed for divorce but need suggestions

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Old 03-15-2010, 05:02 PM
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So I filed for divorce but need suggestions

some caring folks mentioned I need to prepare in case he contacts me.

I have blocked his phone numbers and email but he can get to me via phone at work or show up in person. I have a therapist, a priest and a sponsor..But I guess I need to prepare myself in case he tries..

Anyone want to share how they handled or have thoughts on how to handle?

I really dont expect to hear from him as he blocked me as well and is dating and told me he wants a divorce but just in case.
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Old 03-15-2010, 08:51 PM
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do you feel that if he showed up you'd be in danger?

perhaps the preparing is about being mentally ready for something like this.

i always find that if i have a statement right there in my pocket, it's all memorized and ready to go - i'm much better when that time actually comes.
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Old 03-16-2010, 07:15 AM
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If you have an attorney, simply tell your ex that all further communication must be through him/her. No exceptions.
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