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Old 03-14-2010, 12:48 PM
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New Here.... help with the lingo?

My husband has recently began out patient rehab for cocaine abuse. I am trying to learn and understand as much as I can about his addiction and the affect on myself and our family. This forum seems very supportive and helpful. Can you explain the acroynms and abbreviations?

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Old 03-14-2010, 01:46 PM
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Welcome to SR!

I think someone said they are in one of the "stickies" (the posts at the top of the forum) but I don't know which one, so I'll post the ones I can think of here, for now.

AH - addict (alcoholic) husband
AD- addict daughter
AS - addict son
XABF - ex addict boyfriend
BF - boyfriend
RA - recovering addict
XAH - ex addict husband
XTBXAH - soon to be ex addict husband
DD - dear daughter
DD- dear son
DOC - drug of choice
ES&H - experience, strength and hope

That's all I can think of, right this minute, but it gives you an idea of what the letters stand for.

BTW (by the way), I'm an RA and a codie (codependent)...I have loved ones who are addicts. This is a GREAT place, with people who know exactly what you're going through.

Hugs and prayers!

Amy
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DD - dear daughter
DD- dear son
Impurrfect,

Using my military mindset, for a long time i thought it meant
dependent son
dependent daughter,
as in still under legal age.
LOL
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Old 03-14-2010, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Impurrfect View Post
Welcome to SR!

I think someone said they are in one of the "stickies" (the posts at the top of the forum) but I don't know which one, so I'll post the ones I can think of here, for now.

AH - addict (alcoholic) husband
AD- addict daughter
AS - addict son
XABF - ex addict boyfriend
BF - boyfriend
RA - recovering addict
XAH - ex addict husband
XTBXAH - soon to be ex addict husband
DD - dear daughter
DD- dear son
DOC - drug of choice
ES&H - experience, strength and hope

That's all I can think of, right this minute, but it gives you an idea of what the letters stand for.

BTW (by the way), I'm an RA and a codie (codependent)...I have loved ones who are addicts. This is a GREAT place, with people who know exactly what you're going through.

Hugs and prayers!

Amy
Thanks a million Amy....I'm new to this site and was a little confused of those abriviations
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Old 03-14-2010, 02:03 PM
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oops...XTBXAH is supposed to be STBXAH.
BF can also mean best friend

((Wicked)) - that's funny It took me quite a while to figure these all out.

Hugs and prayers!

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Old 03-14-2010, 05:29 PM
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There's a few more to add...

IMO- In my opinion
IMHO- in my humble opinion
JMO- just my opinion

Welcome to SR....you will find lots of people who will share their ES&H with you.
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Old 03-14-2010, 05:32 PM
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Welcome Chloebelle!!

I needed a roadmap, too, when I started here over a year ago.

It's been an outstanding source of support for me in first coping with an alcoholic boyfriend of 10+ year and then ultimately choosing to leave him and strike out for a new life on my own. I'm still here working through my own issues, which were present long before my XABF (ex alcoholic boyfriend).

The folks here support me every day by sharing their stories and letting me share mine.

I hope to here more from you.

Again, Welcome!

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Old 03-14-2010, 06:00 PM
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Thank you all. I have no idea what's ahead of me- I just know I can use all the help I can get!
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