tchappy

Well, I thought I was doing so good at getting over this relationship and moving on and being happy.

Well, I stepped outside my little circle today and snooped on the Ohhhh so great FACEBOOK. Saw that the ex ABF has a new girl as a friend and she is 26which is almost half his age and from the sounds of her profile is a PARTY girl, drinking drugs and stuff. I just have this gut feeling she is more than a friend. She put under one of his pics "hey sexy"

My stomach is sick for some reason!!! I have NO idea why I snooped or why I even care. I guess maybe I am not doing as well as I thought.

I know he is still using and is a loser basically, so why would this bother me? I feel like I have gone backwards now in my recovery. What do I do now?

Guess was just needing to vent! Thanks for listening

suki44883

As long as you continue to pick at the scab, the wound won't heal. You have to stay away from his Facebook page and any other places where you know he will be. That's the only way your wounds will heal.

Do something extra nice for YOU and put him and all that other stuff in a deep, dark recess or your mind.

outtolunch

So you had a relapse.

Time to get back on the wagon and avoid people/places and things that trigger you.

Teggie

I'm with you tc, I need to get back in my hula hoop too!

Hugs,
Teggie