Do they eventually stop?
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Alabama, USA
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Do they eventually stop?
Coming over? Leaving letters at your door? Calling your friends to call you? OMG!!! He called DISPATCH and asked them to page me to call my husband!!!
I've been doing pretty good this last week. 6 days, 2 hours, 38 minutes since last contact. I've been pretty emotionless for the most part. Had a few "shake your head, I can't believe I went back for more" moments. Got teary eyed once out of anger, but it wasn't even so much that a tear rolled down my cheek. I blinked that quarter of a tear away and moved on. No real anger. A little, mostly at myself, but nothing major. No desire at all to call him. Lord for the first time last night I was sitting on the couch and realized just how GREAT this week has been!!! I never had to defend myself against bogus accusations. Didn't have to explain why it took 4 rings for me to answer. Went to lunch with a guy friend and didn't look over my shoulder the whole time. I stopped freaking out over every little door slam outside or headlights coming down the road (I live on a dead end so very little traffic). This week has been incredibly quiet and I'm enjoying the hell out of it!!!
And now this. A 4 page letter left in the door today while I was gone at work, taped to the garter belt I bought two years ago when we were planning the wedding. Then my neighbor asked tonight if 'that guy' ever got up with me. He said he didn't know who he was (new neighbor). Said he was here at 3 when neighbor left and here at 6 when neighbor got home. Wasn't sure if he stayed that 3 hours or left and came back.
And now the page from work to call my husband!!!!
Does it ever stop? Do they eventually get the hint or do I need to call him and ask him not to try to get in touch with me anymore? I just want it all to stop!!!!
I want to be the only crazy person I wake up with!!!
YouTube - Dixie Chicks - Not Ready To Make Nice
I've been doing pretty good this last week. 6 days, 2 hours, 38 minutes since last contact. I've been pretty emotionless for the most part. Had a few "shake your head, I can't believe I went back for more" moments. Got teary eyed once out of anger, but it wasn't even so much that a tear rolled down my cheek. I blinked that quarter of a tear away and moved on. No real anger. A little, mostly at myself, but nothing major. No desire at all to call him. Lord for the first time last night I was sitting on the couch and realized just how GREAT this week has been!!! I never had to defend myself against bogus accusations. Didn't have to explain why it took 4 rings for me to answer. Went to lunch with a guy friend and didn't look over my shoulder the whole time. I stopped freaking out over every little door slam outside or headlights coming down the road (I live on a dead end so very little traffic). This week has been incredibly quiet and I'm enjoying the hell out of it!!!
And now this. A 4 page letter left in the door today while I was gone at work, taped to the garter belt I bought two years ago when we were planning the wedding. Then my neighbor asked tonight if 'that guy' ever got up with me. He said he didn't know who he was (new neighbor). Said he was here at 3 when neighbor left and here at 6 when neighbor got home. Wasn't sure if he stayed that 3 hours or left and came back.
And now the page from work to call my husband!!!!
Does it ever stop? Do they eventually get the hint or do I need to call him and ask him not to try to get in touch with me anymore? I just want it all to stop!!!!
I want to be the only crazy person I wake up with!!!
YouTube - Dixie Chicks - Not Ready To Make Nice
Last edited by kv816; 11-22-2009 at 07:15 PM.
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Alabama, USA
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It's been a good week!! Friday was a little rough, I was pretty edgy and anxious. But I went out and cleared my mind. Saturday there was a food drive at the movie theater so my girls and I bought 8 cans of veges and went and saw Ice Age: Dawn of The Dinosaurs. First time we ever all went to a movie at the same time. We made tacos tonight. I put everything in small dishes in a buffet across the table and everyone got nothing but an empty shell and instructions to "build away". Xabf HATED that!! Guess what, if I made it or if she made, a 5 year old is messy with tacos!! Lord lets have some fun in the process!! So half the taco ended up on the floor.....guess what, this is what I have dogs for!! LOL
You know what really got me though. This is going to sound silly. But I looked at the fridge the other day and noticed NOTHING on it. It was completely empty. And I dang near cried. Xabf HATED stuff on the fridge. Always said the fridge was for food, it wasn't a toy box or a picture frame. So when I moved out and into my own place I kid you not the FIRST thing that got unpacked was the Word Wizard and two complete alphabets of magnetic letters. So to see my fridge empty the other day crushed me. I asked my girls why it was empty, what happened to all my pictures. My little 5 year old jumped up with an inch thick of pictures saying "we made you new ones!!" and then she proceeded to put them up on the fridge.
Yes, I've had an excellent week with no contact. I'm living MY life the way I want to.
You know what really got me though. This is going to sound silly. But I looked at the fridge the other day and noticed NOTHING on it. It was completely empty. And I dang near cried. Xabf HATED stuff on the fridge. Always said the fridge was for food, it wasn't a toy box or a picture frame. So when I moved out and into my own place I kid you not the FIRST thing that got unpacked was the Word Wizard and two complete alphabets of magnetic letters. So to see my fridge empty the other day crushed me. I asked my girls why it was empty, what happened to all my pictures. My little 5 year old jumped up with an inch thick of pictures saying "we made you new ones!!" and then she proceeded to put them up on the fridge.
Yes, I've had an excellent week with no contact. I'm living MY life the way I want to.
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