fri night
anyways. Sorry you had a sad bday - but today is a new day. This year of your life can be what YOU want it to be. Get out and do something for yourself! Even something simple - a massage, pedicure, walk, window shop, lunch with friends......
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I very nicely said,"no, that's fine, have a drink for me".
He said......."what? What do you mean?"
I said, "I mean, have a nice night... "
He came home at 2 a.m.... with all of the lights out in the house, except for the beautiful chandelier over the dining room table, nicely illumnating my gifts, roses, cake etc. that I had w/ my kids and family.
I heard, "oh s***" as he ran up the stairs, started w/ the I'm sorry's ........... and then went on to BLAME ME for not reminding him.
Ya, right.
I rolled over.
This is life w/ an addict. Get used to it.
BUT.......... happy birthday from a girl who understands your hurt.
Love,
Cess:ghug3
happy belated birthday lesa. sorry you had to spend your bday without him and i'm glad you didn't have to be alone, his loss, huh!
i agree with the others, next time come here and let us help you celebrated. try not to feel like the lone ranger, i've spent most my last 23 birthdays, kids bdays, aniversaries, the birth of our kids and most holidays without my ah, due to his drug use. i think his idea of a celebration was to get high. you are not alone, you and your family are in my prayers.
i agree with the others, next time come here and let us help you celebrated. try not to feel like the lone ranger, i've spent most my last 23 birthdays, kids bdays, aniversaries, the birth of our kids and most holidays without my ah, due to his drug use. i think his idea of a celebration was to get high. you are not alone, you and your family are in my prayers.
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