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Old 08-05-2009, 01:38 PM
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Day 4

Hi all,

i just joined this website today my 4th day of no boozing. I dont remember the last time i went 4 nights without a drink, it scares me to think that its possibly 5 years ago.

I suppose im not feeling too bad although i get a bit bugged out in the afternoons and start tapping my leg and squeezing the hell out of my hands.

I was hoping my sleeps would begin to be more satisfying but they are still pretty difficult. i actually got out of bed and started rambling to my girlfirend the other night apparently thats a bit worrying!

anyway, just though i would say hi to some likeminded people.

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Old 08-05-2009, 01:42 PM
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hello shaby and welcome to sr! there is lots to read here and plenty of support.i was scared to death of what i was going to do without booze! im 180 days sober now and my life has changed beyond recognition,,again,,welcome.,,ps,any day without booze if you are like me is a miracle! im glad you have put the drink down.
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Old 08-05-2009, 01:58 PM
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It takes time and patience and committment, if it were easy there would't be nearly as many drunks in the world. Stay with it, the better will come. Congrads on 4 daze, awesome.
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Old 08-05-2009, 02:24 PM
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thanks for your words of encouragement, off to bed now after my night cap mug of hot chocolate, makes a change!
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Old 08-05-2009, 03:38 PM
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Welcome Shaby. Glad you found us all here. I am just getting started as well, and have found this site to be very helpful. Best of luck, and keep us posted on your recovery!
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:01 PM
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Welcome Shaby,
Congrats on 4 days!
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:18 PM
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Welcome to SR, Shaby!
4 days is great, you can do it
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:33 PM
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Hi and Welcome,

Hopefully your sleeping patterns will settle down.

I'm glad you found us.
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Old 08-05-2009, 06:31 PM
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Hello and welcome to the SR community.

If you have a family doctor, this might be a good time
to give them a call & ask if you need help with detoxing.
Hang on and stay committed to your sobreiety every day!
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Welcome to SR Shaby. It's good to have you. Keep coming back to read and post. This is a great place to get ongoing support and understanding.
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Welcome to SR Shaby

It all gets better - keep it up, 4 days is a great start

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Old 08-06-2009, 12:52 AM
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Welcome Shaby, and congratulations on four days. I'm only a couple days ahead, so I don't got much else to offer.
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I thought I posted here yesterday... must be losing it too ;-)

Just wanted to congratulate you on everything & look forward to your stories of recovery. Keep it up!

Take Care,

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Old 08-06-2009, 02:51 AM
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Congrats on 5 days now, it does get better, it gets better quicker with a recovery program, have you checked any out?
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Welcome shaby and congrats on what will now be 5 days.
The first couple of weeks is the hardest physically and you are well on your way.
I found the support here at SR really helpful in the early weeks and came and posted and read everyday. It helps you to keep vigilant in your quest.
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Old 08-06-2009, 05:46 AM
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Welcome Shaby!

I'm new here myself, on day 9 today. I don't really post anything but just coming by and reading what others have to say helps.
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Old 08-06-2009, 02:09 PM
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thanks again all. Tazman in answer to your Q. no i have not checked out recovery, as i live in Germany and i dont know if they have them in english.

So yes i think i am through day five. Although i dont know if i have actually decided to stop for good, i was just going to be happy to have brocken the routine and got through the 4 day mark. I think posting here and reading ceertainly can help as it adds some credibility to the struggle.

i was not really sure if i am an alcoholic, i mean i was drinking on average 6 nights a week a bottle of wine but then it began to get out of hand when i quite smoking and suddenly found the hangovers were less severe and i could stretch to 1.5 bottles. the real awakening came when i was looking for a bottle of wine with the girlfriend in a supermarket and she asked which one i fancied and i was looking for the one with the
highest alcohol content, it clicked that that was not normal!

good night all
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Old 08-06-2009, 07:59 PM
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Shaby,
Welcome, from Arizona. Welcome to SR, lots and lots of ESH here. (Encouragement, strength and hope.) Thanks for sharing. This is a disease! It destroys lives like cancer and kills. Keep coming back, keep voicing your thoughts.

BTW, where in Germany are you? Just loved your beautiful country while serving in the Army in 1980's. What memories I have.....
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Old 08-06-2009, 08:55 PM
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Shaby,
Woooo Hoooooo!
My congratulations to you on your success of 4 days!
That was only 3 days ago for me. Hang on for the full ride as these great people keep tellin' me it's gonna get better, and I believe em!
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Old 08-06-2009, 09:52 PM
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I am a "wine enthusiast" as well. Thanks you for sharing your experience. I'm

sure AA is in Germany. Have you checked that out?

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