NeedingHelp7

My son, age 6, has been on a tee-ball team the past 3 years, but this year it's too far to get to, and no one to car pool with. His dad (AH) is sleeping Sat morning now because he works nights so he can't bring him.

I told my son last night that I am joining this softball team and we would be going together, but mommy will be on the team with growups and he can watch. He looked sad that he wouldn't be playing tee-ball this year. Now I feel sad and guilty.

NH7

jessicact

I also have a young son, so I no how quilty you must be feeling. Make sure you sit down with your son and explane why he will not be able to join this year. Maybe this could be a time for him to think of somthing else he might like to join that is closer to home.

BBD

Maybe he can have a little job with your team and be the water boy. I feel for him cause kids do get so sad at times. Its not your fault but maybe he'll enjoy watching the grown-ups for just one year..Smiles, Bonnie

wooforever

I guess you have to do what you think it best. He will understand one day.

Seren

Oh NH.....please don't feel guilty that you are doing something you enjoy and he can't. It sounds as though even if you were not part of a league yourself that it would not be possible for your son this year.

What other possiblities for sports are available for children that age in your area? There must be other things that children to for fun and exercise!! Good luck and have fun exploring other possibilities!

Hugs, HG

littlebird77

Could you mention your situation to the other mommies on your team? Maybe they can bring their kids too, and there would be more company for him.

winnie12

Can he be a bat boy or help out somehow with the team?

serenityqueen

My ex worked third shift for years and was able to wait to go to bed until after soccer on Saturday mornings. One day a week shouldn't be too much to sacrifice for your child. After all, most third shifters don't work on Sat night so he could catch up on his sleep. Just my thoughts.

Judy

aasharon90

When one door closes another one will open.

Maybe the Man upstairs has something else
in store for him.

6 yrs old and he has his whole life ahead of
him.

NeedingHelp7

There will be a few girls his age there. Hoping this goes well.

This is what I'm hoping for.

I wish this could happen but he works Sat night 8pm also. Their visit is Sat afternoon at 2pm so he has to get sleep before that, then goes to work.

Thanks.....and amen.

Callie

That sounds like a GREAT idea! Both of my kids play baseball and use to play tee ball. They would have loved the idea of h20 boy or bat boy or any chore to do. Maybe you could give him his own "score" book?? He could organize the helmets or bats or balls? Maybe give him a digital (if he's responsible enough or a throwaway if not) camera to take "team" pics?