me agian...lesa

Old 04-25-2009, 09:39 PM
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me agian...lesa

My sister is married to a drunk and most know my story he is a crack addict..told him if he used again this time i have to say and do what i mean that iam leaving and my sister is too..so we can help each other and help each other not to go go back ,,,we are scared ,not sure what ..Iam 46 and never beening alone..pray for us
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Old 04-25-2009, 09:54 PM
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I am praying...it will be hard at first but each day gets better you can do it!!
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Old 04-26-2009, 04:25 AM
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many prayers are being sent for strength and the wisdom to know what is right for YOU.
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Huge hugs coming your way!!! :ghug2

May you find the peace and strength to move forward with a decision that is right for YOU. :praying

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Lesa, my prayers go out for you and your sister. If you both have not been to any meetings yet, now might be a great time to start. It would set up other live support for each of you, so that even if one of you changes your mind, the other will have support already in place.

Alanon, Naranon and CoDA are three similar programs that offer support and help working through 12 steps that just might save your life, I know they saved mine.

We're here for you too. Please let us know how this works for you.

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You and your sister together will give you both much more strength than if you try to make changes all alone. You can protect each other by reminding each other how precious she is and by wanting for her a peaceful, safe life. In protecting your sister, by wanting the very best for her, you will be protecting you, too. Sometimes we can fight for other people better than for ourselves.

Together the two of you can build security and safety and happiness.
It's nice to see you here again. Many blessings, lesa.
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I'm praying for you and your sister,good that you have each other
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praying for both of you.
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Old 04-28-2009, 03:59 PM
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Prayers for you and your sister. It was my sister, that made me want to get clean. She started first, but she set a great example for me, and for so many others.
God Bless You and I hope you both find inner peace, happiness, and your sobriety.
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