When it rains, it pours...
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When it rains, it pours...
Unfortunatley, I have more sad news. I lost my baby over the weekend. I'm consumed with sadness, guilt and anger. The 'what ifs' and 'if onlys' are constantly running through my mind. There has to be something good in all of this, right? Or am I just fooling myself? The stress of everything that's taken place has been a lot to deal with. I'm so sad, I'm hurting and I've never felt so alone before. I cry constantly. Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated. I'm sorry for dumping bad news on everyone yet again. You guys are such great people, thank you all for your advice and kind thoughts. I hope to soon be around the forum more in the days, weeks and months to come. I'm trying to get through this mess one step at a time.
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(((Soulsearching))), I am so sorry. Try not to isolate with this, talk to family or friends you can trust and know we are here to listen and provide hugs. And take very good care of yourself right now, the stress will eat you alive if you let it.
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(((SoulSearchin))) I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself, do not isolate, surround yourself with loving friends/family. Keep posting, sweetie, we are here for you.
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Oh Gosh Soul Searchin. Im so sorry. I guess this was Gods way to say the little one wasnt ready. Nothing is so hard as a miscarrige. I know. I went thru so much sadness, gut wrenching pain and cries, to sheer destructive anger. I was a wreck. Take this time to be with your mom and sister and those that are close to you. Cry your heart out. It will help with the grief. Dont shut yourself off from everyone. Keep posting. Keep talking to someone. Im sorry Soul.
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How completely bereft you must feel. I am so deeply sorry for your broken heart, your terrible grief. I pray God's angels will hold you close. God bless the eternal spirit of your baby.
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I'm very sorry about everything that's going on with you. I pray that you find peace and closure of your relationship and it'll allow you to be the best person you can be in the future. Maybe you can help other women that find themselves in the situation that you used to be in....
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I'm glad you were able to come here and lighten your load by sharing this with us, if only a little bit. Don't ever feel guilty for posting your troubles here. That's what we're all here for. I post every trivial thing that peeves me, and here you are sharing about a serious loss. So don't feel even a little bad about unburdening yourself.
And don't let anyone tell you that your pain isn't serious, as some people tried to with my sister when she had a miscarriage. It's a real loss, so give yourself time to grieve. Get the support you need, even if it is professional therapy.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you and baby in my prayers.
Love,
KJ
And don't let anyone tell you that your pain isn't serious, as some people tried to with my sister when she had a miscarriage. It's a real loss, so give yourself time to grieve. Get the support you need, even if it is professional therapy.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you and baby in my prayers.
Love,
KJ
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I'm sorry for the loss of your baby and the emotional pain you are in at this most difficult time in your life. Try to rest and remember to be kind to yourself.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
****{Hugs}}}
Passion
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
****{Hugs}}}
Passion
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