We're going to the bar tonight
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We're going to the bar tonight
God help me. ABF and I are on the same pool team. We go to practice. But I am fed up with his drinking. My plan tonight? Not drink myself. Nothing. Just iced tea or Coke. Let him drink his guts out and not say anything about it and let him make an ass of himself. WWYD?
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Are you in recovery? If u r then take care
of urself. What would he do if u got sick?
Flu or something? would he go alone?
You dont have to subject urself to that
kind of conduct. You have to think that
u are worth more than that kind of
treatment.
Let him get another partner would be my
suggestion.
Stay strong.
of urself. What would he do if u got sick?
Flu or something? would he go alone?
You dont have to subject urself to that
kind of conduct. You have to think that
u are worth more than that kind of
treatment.
Let him get another partner would be my
suggestion.
Stay strong.
*~10 YEARS BABY~*
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Location: Hollywood
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WWYD?
to get away from him, worrying about him
making an ass of himself would be the last
of my worries or would scare me and push me
to get out even faster.
If your fed up with his drinking, you can't stop
him from drinking, but you can start making better
choices yourself.
Good Luck to you
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Join Date: Feb 2009
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WWYD? I've answered in light of your other thread..
I'd make a plan. I may not be ready to implement it.. we all have to reach the end of our line before a rocket gets stuck up our backside and we move.. but I'd make it nonetheless.
My plan would be not to drink too much.. ever.. you will need your wits about you and your reactions razor sharp to fend off any blows or flying objects coming your way, and to avoid a DUI should you ever need to get the hell out of there. It would include always having my car with a full tank incase I had to escape quickly from said blows/flying objects and a note of somewhere safe I could stay should the first part of this ever be needed (I would also ensure I had money to pay if required). It would include the number of the emergency services and the Police. It would include having all my important documents and a change of clothes stored safely somewhere I could just grab them and run. It would include putting an ICE (in case of emergency) number in my phone just incase one of his battering sessions landed me in the Hospital and someone needed to be contacted.
Get yourself safe.. he can look after his own 'ass'..
I'd make a plan. I may not be ready to implement it.. we all have to reach the end of our line before a rocket gets stuck up our backside and we move.. but I'd make it nonetheless.
My plan would be not to drink too much.. ever.. you will need your wits about you and your reactions razor sharp to fend off any blows or flying objects coming your way, and to avoid a DUI should you ever need to get the hell out of there. It would include always having my car with a full tank incase I had to escape quickly from said blows/flying objects and a note of somewhere safe I could stay should the first part of this ever be needed (I would also ensure I had money to pay if required). It would include the number of the emergency services and the Police. It would include having all my important documents and a change of clothes stored safely somewhere I could just grab them and run. It would include putting an ICE (in case of emergency) number in my phone just incase one of his battering sessions landed me in the Hospital and someone needed to be contacted.
Get yourself safe.. he can look after his own 'ass'..
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