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Old 04-06-2009, 10:56 AM
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Birthday question

When does someone actually celebrate a sobriety B Day? Is it a month, a year, what?
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Old 04-06-2009, 11:03 AM
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Gosh, I think you can celebrate any milestone you want to.

It's always good to be proud of your success.
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I know, in the NA, they celebrate milestones on the same day each month. Whatever first day you went without using drugs, is your "clean date". You get a tag for day 1, a tag for day 30, one for 60 days, one for 90 days, one for 6 months, one for 9 months, one for a year, one for 18 months, and then one for multiple years. But, if you really feel like celebrating a certain day, for whatever reason you want to, celebrate it! GO HAVE SOME FUN! Good, clean (sober) fun!
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Hi C23!

I will not explain AA chips, tokens in detail..as these time sobriety markers differ

in groups ..some do not give them. In my Women's group, for instance..we recently

took a group conscience and voted to give "tokens" or "chips" for months 1-12..

for extra encouragement and support.

AA birthday cakes are "yearmarks" you might say. They mark consecutive years of

continuous sobriety.

Best Wishes!
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When does someone actually celebrate a sobriety B Day? Is it a month, a year, what?
My home group hands out tokens for years of sobriety, tokens and cake are handed out at the end-of-the month open meeting. Another group I attend hands out monthly tokens, believe they have a set for one through eleven, and a 24 hour token for newcomers. The monthlies/yearlies/cake are handed out at every meeting. The monthlies are light aluminum, the yearlies are heavy things with an antique brass finish
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I'm not in AA, but I suppose I might acknowledge a full year of sobriety
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my home group gives out chips for 1,2,3,6,9 months and then on the years
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So when someone on here says happy b day to someone, is it their real b day or are they celebrating a milestone?
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So when someone on here says happy b day to someone, is it their real b day or are they celebrating a milestone?
When it's a sobriety date it will say '****** has 90 days' etc.
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Old 04-07-2009, 02:04 AM
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c23, if we made it through the day, thats good enough for me...

dont need the balloons or the party hats tho...lol

bag the hooplah, the fanfare, and just be grateful...
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I celebrate every single day I'm sober.
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My homegroup gives out coins for continuous lengths of sobriety from 1-11 months and then coins for yearly birthdays after that. I think each group decides how they are going to celebrate. We give out the coins at the beginning of each meeting but there are some who give them out once a month or weekly.
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So when someone on here says happy b day to someone, is it their real b day or are they celebrating a milestone?
Okay C..

This can be confusing...

Usually, but not not always..someone will post a thread and say it is someone's

"belly button birthday" (Happy Birthday So and So)...

if it is a sobriety yearmark..(my term) the thread might read...

"So and So has 6 Years Today".

Clear as mud? Hope this helps, anyhow.

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