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I think that everyone who knows me will accept that, for the most part, I am a patient and fair person.
I LOVE the Newcomers forum. In fact, I am passionate about the Newcomers forum. I am here every day, and I have been here nearly every day for years. I love to see new members helping other new members, and older members offering their personal experience. Some of the newcomers who arrive are raw and in deep pain. Others, who have been here a few days or a week, are thrilled that they are living without alcohol dominating their lives. Still others who have had a few sober days, have fallen again and we rally together to offer support. It is a forum filled with highs and lows, but above all, it is a forum of people who are trying to recover.
There is NO NEED to bash, subtly or openly, anyone else's program. There is no need to post anything negative about someone else's program, in order to promote your own beliefs. In fact, to do so, shows a great LACK of recovery on the part of the poster. Good recovery means feeling comfortable with where you are, and accepting of where other people are.
I LOVE the Newcomers forum. In fact, I am passionate about the Newcomers forum. I am here every day, and I have been here nearly every day for years. I love to see new members helping other new members, and older members offering their personal experience. Some of the newcomers who arrive are raw and in deep pain. Others, who have been here a few days or a week, are thrilled that they are living without alcohol dominating their lives. Still others who have had a few sober days, have fallen again and we rally together to offer support. It is a forum filled with highs and lows, but above all, it is a forum of people who are trying to recover.
There is NO NEED to bash, subtly or openly, anyone else's program. There is no need to post anything negative about someone else's program, in order to promote your own beliefs. In fact, to do so, shows a great LACK of recovery on the part of the poster. Good recovery means feeling comfortable with where you are, and accepting of where other people are.
The way I see it, I am really new to being sober after a 28 year drinking career, and I can use all of the ideas I can get. And a few of us here have made ourselves the promise that if what we are doing doesn't work, we will try one of the many other paths presented on these forums til something sticks. Thanks for always being here Anna
It's time to change!
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Anna,
I think this is something I really needed to hear this morning! Although I don't feel that my way is the "only way" (as it's got me drunk in the past).... I get a little too passionate when I hear of someone else's situation(s) that seem unfair or bad advice given to them, or what have you. I tend to "react" instead of "respond"... a recent example was Tortoises thread and my words written immediately after reading it.
I will take to heart what you have posted here and work on "me" today with how I can be a better person to others and lend help, love and care instead of negativity towards a situation they may be going through!
Thank you, Anna! For me, I needed to read this so I can be a better member of "our family" here on SR!
:ghug3
I think this is something I really needed to hear this morning! Although I don't feel that my way is the "only way" (as it's got me drunk in the past).... I get a little too passionate when I hear of someone else's situation(s) that seem unfair or bad advice given to them, or what have you. I tend to "react" instead of "respond"... a recent example was Tortoises thread and my words written immediately after reading it.
I will take to heart what you have posted here and work on "me" today with how I can be a better person to others and lend help, love and care instead of negativity towards a situation they may be going through!
Thank you, Anna! For me, I needed to read this so I can be a better member of "our family" here on SR!
:ghug3
Thanks Anna,
It is a great reminder of being sensitive on the board and working with eachother in a time of need. Keep up the great work. I always read your posts and I know you are working hard to make this board better all the time. Keep it up girl!
It is a great reminder of being sensitive on the board and working with eachother in a time of need. Keep up the great work. I always read your posts and I know you are working hard to make this board better all the time. Keep it up girl!
Thank you Anna!!! There have been a few threads lately that made me cringe. My fear is that newcomers may have logged on for the first time and read these threads, and now they are no longer with us.
Thank you Anna!
I am very passionate about my Recovery and when I see someone continue to run into a brick wall, over and over, JUST LIKE I DID, it is hard to sit back and watch it happen time and time again. When someone asks for help/suggestions, I will answer with what has worked for me.
I may come across, at times, as being rude, but it is not meant to be that way at all. If I didn't care about others and want to offer my ESH, I wouldn't be on SR in the first place.
If I have ever offended anyone, please know it has not been intentional.
Anna, you are an Angel . . . I think on Mother's Day, we all need to send you a card and a hug! lol What a family you so lovingly look over!
Hugs to All,
Judy
I am very passionate about my Recovery and when I see someone continue to run into a brick wall, over and over, JUST LIKE I DID, it is hard to sit back and watch it happen time and time again. When someone asks for help/suggestions, I will answer with what has worked for me.
I may come across, at times, as being rude, but it is not meant to be that way at all. If I didn't care about others and want to offer my ESH, I wouldn't be on SR in the first place.
If I have ever offended anyone, please know it has not been intentional.
Anna, you are an Angel . . . I think on Mother's Day, we all need to send you a card and a hug! lol What a family you so lovingly look over!
Hugs to All,
Judy
Wow!!! Anna that was a true inspiration your post!! :ghug3
I am pretty new hear still and to be quite honest I have NOT spent alot of time on the threads becuz I have found so much rudeness to be quite blunt that I decided I did not want to be any part of that...My goal is to come on hear to HELP others and support them however I can and yet continue to strengthen my own Sobriety in the process.
I expect that God has just sent another of his Angel's down to SR thru you Anna to once again remind us of "What is really important" and that is to "DO unto others as we would have them do UNTO US".
My gratitude for this awesome thread!
Love Pancake =^..^= xo
I am pretty new hear still and to be quite honest I have NOT spent alot of time on the threads becuz I have found so much rudeness to be quite blunt that I decided I did not want to be any part of that...My goal is to come on hear to HELP others and support them however I can and yet continue to strengthen my own Sobriety in the process.
I expect that God has just sent another of his Angel's down to SR thru you Anna to once again remind us of "What is really important" and that is to "DO unto others as we would have them do UNTO US".
My gratitude for this awesome thread!
Love Pancake =^..^= xo
It's time to change!
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: lake tahoe
Posts: 1,025
Wow!!! Anna that was a true inspiration your post!! :ghug3
I am pretty new hear still and to be quite honest I have NOT spent alot of time on the threads becuz I have found so much rudeness to be quite blunt that I decided I did not want to be any part of that...My goal is to come on hear to HELP others and support them however I can and yet continue to strengthen my own Sobriety in the process.
I expect that God has just sent another of his Angel's down to SR thru you Anna to once again remind us of "What is really important" and that is to "DO unto others as we would have them do UNTO US".
My gratitude for this awesome thread!
Love Pancake =^..^= xo
I am pretty new hear still and to be quite honest I have NOT spent alot of time on the threads becuz I have found so much rudeness to be quite blunt that I decided I did not want to be any part of that...My goal is to come on hear to HELP others and support them however I can and yet continue to strengthen my own Sobriety in the process.
I expect that God has just sent another of his Angel's down to SR thru you Anna to once again remind us of "What is really important" and that is to "DO unto others as we would have them do UNTO US".
My gratitude for this awesome thread!
Love Pancake =^..^= xo
Pancake.... I agree 100% with what you posted! Thank you!
I am glad I found this because although I am not long here I was seriously thinking of popping in a lot less, there is just too much negativity. I owe my life to A.A, and Im almost nervous to share it on some forums here. I try to avoid contraversary, but there seems to be so much of it here. I just dont see why people have to force their will. I find "live and let live" much more appealing. I need to stick with the winners. Thanks for posting this.
Hello, nelco.
I know it stinks right now...but it's not like this all the time. Things have been a little testy lately...hopefully it will calm down soon. What's going on right now is not the SR that I'm used to. I hope you stick around.
I know it stinks right now...but it's not like this all the time. Things have been a little testy lately...hopefully it will calm down soon. What's going on right now is not the SR that I'm used to. I hope you stick around.
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